Extras in the dowry from your point of view / ladies please do not buy these items!
Life group: Dowry is undoubtedly an integral part of any marriage and cohabitation, but it may no longer be defined as the means provided by the bride’s family to begin the couple’s cohabitation. In its new definition and description, it should be said that it is an excuse for eye to eye and competition with other family families and a criterion for measuring the bride’s quality; The more dowry the bride has, the more valuable and valuable!
False and strict traditions of some of us that have gradually become customs and habits. Many single girls and boys may have dreamed of marriage and cohabitation! It is interesting that not everyone is subject to these traditions. It seems that he is behind the society and has done something wrong. It is then that instead of encouraging, the family members either ridicule or are heartbroken to see “what a poor dowry did not have at least a few pieces of proper equipment!” I do not know if you are one of those people who have heard these words or have not told anyone! But just know that many people are very sorry for the luxury of their wedding ceremony and process.
We asked the audience of Fars News Agency what items you bought in your dowry and you thought it would be necessary, but when you entered into a joint life, you realized that it is not useful or at least you did not use it ?! You will read some of the most repetitive answers below.
Tea maker, samovar, kettle! Heading for unnecessary items
“At first I thought all three of these items were necessary, and if I did not have them, my dowry would be incomplete. I thought one of these devices could be used at any time and in any situation. That’s why I bought all three. But it was not really used! “I only used the tea maker and kettle once or twice, and then the decoration in the kitchen was useless.”
“I bought a kettle, a samovar and a tea maker for my dowry, but I really only used the tea maker once! Not used at all. My friends who wanted to buy dowry, I told them that it is extra cost and it does not work. “But they said it was a fantasy and they would like it to be, but later they regretted why they bought it.”
“I can not make tea with a samovar at all, whether gas or electric! I think it is great even for a family of two with guests. But I do not know why I bought it in my device. You know, at that moment, a person thinks to himself that if he does not have it, he will bring less in front of the daughters of the family. But now that I have entered into a life together, my point of view is completely different. For example, what? “Both a samovar and a kettle while we only use the kettle in our house!”
“Only once in my life did I turn on my tea maker. Those were the first days of our lives. I wanted to be so luxurious and made a hearty breakfast, but neither my wife nor I liked the taste of the tea. “From that day on, I only use the samovar.”
“I’m really heartbroken that the girls are buying all three for their dowry. I told several people out of pity several times to see which one you are more comfortable with, just buy it, you do not need to buy all three of these devices. It is really accommodating, especially with the fact that all their houses are small and have a lack of space. If there is room, it is not really used and their money is wasted. “The skyrocketing prices are really buying all three injustices, but they put my advice on jealousy!”
Buffet; Extra but necessary for the eye and eyeball
“Wow, I hate the buffet.” I just bought it at my mother’s insistence. He said we bought all these crystal dishes for people to see. “Then you do not want to buy a buffet to bring our reputation in front of the family!”
“I thought it was just me who did not like the buffet. But then I realized I was not alone. All the girls object to her being. Of course, it is attractive in the beginning and you enjoy the electricity of your dowry crystal dishes that are displayed on the buffet shelves, but not really later! “For some time now, I have wanted to replace the library with a buffet next to the living room.”
“My sister told me not to buy a buffet, but I was so upset that why !? I used to say that if not, I would be ashamed in front of my wife’s family. Of course, I really liked it and we paid a lot for it. But now I think how cumbersome and redundant it is. Without it, the decoration of our house would be much better. “Please tell me not to buy girls.”
We do not know how to sew, but we buy a sewing machine
“I bought and wrote a list of dowry items on the internet before buying. It was also a sewing machine that we bought at my own insistence, but it really has never been needed until two years ago. “Until maybe one day I will go to a sewing class because of this sewing machine!”
“I do not know how to sew. Even with a thread and a needle, let alone a sewing machine! Even now, if there is a problem with the clothes and they need to sew, they all go to the tailor and do not fix it themselves. But I do not know why my parents, even though they knew, bought me a sewing machine. “It’s just a professional sewing machine that I could not figure out at all.”
“I think we are to blame for buying extra things. Why does a girl have something in her dowry when her cousin or any of her relatives ask? He should be ashamed of saying no. Incidentally, he has to say no firmly, because I did not need to buy it. Why do we have to answer to others for our personal life ?! “I bought extra things, even a sewing machine, for fear of these people, and now I regret it.”
Meat Grinder; Buy or not ?!
“Because it was customary and everyone was buying, the family bought a meat grinder for my dowry. But I think the food processor does the same thing as the meat grinder and you don’t have to buy it. Of course, I do not think anyone is mincing meat at home right now. “Honestly, I always buy ready.”
“I always buy minced meat ready and I have never used my minced meat at all. I prepare the rest of the ingredients with a food processor. I think they should buy the same food processor. No more meat grinder »
“I did not want to when I said that. My mother was really upset. Khalem’s daughter was newly married at that time and my mother wanted me to have nothing less than that. “I have not used a meat grinder at all for several years now.”
“I bought it myself. That means I bought most of my equipment myself. “Of course, I later regretted it because it did not work and it still does not.”
Cordless vacuum cleaner; Extra expense!
“It’s really ridiculous to buy a few devices with one function! But I did this ridiculous thing for my device. I bought both a vacuum cleaner and a cordless vacuum cleaner! But I want to share my experience with you. As long as the vacuum cleaner is on, the cordless vacuum cleaner will not be used at all. “Because it has much lower suction power.”
“I bought a cordless vacuum cleaner, but I wish I had not bought one. It does not do anything different from a vacuum cleaner, and even worse, even if you buy the best brand, its battery will break down after a while and it will not be usable. “Another disadvantage is that the capacity of the bag is very limited and it needs to be charged very quickly, and when you need it, you have to wait for hours to charge.”
Pressure cooker, slow cooker, steamer; Know efficiency first, then buy
“Everyone said that a pressure cooker was needed and used to buy dowry. They said that at some point a guest would come and be needed. Put the stew and it is ready two minutes later. But the guest does not come as he used to! Everyone reports from a few days ago, and I put the stew in the same ordinary pot for opportunity and patience. “It also happens to be tastier.”
“One of our relatives had bought both a pressure cooker and a multifunction rice cooker and did not know their efficiency at all. He had just bought it to show what the whole dowry is. While the multifunction rice cooker has the capability and efficiency of a pressure cooker. “In my opinion, such purchases are not only a sign of luxury, but also a sign of illiteracy.”
“I work and to buy dowry, I thought that since I do not have the opportunity to cook food, I should buy a pressure cooker so that I can prepare food quickly. But because I usually make food in the morning and let it cook a little. “I did not need a pressure cooker at all. I think it should be assessed before buying.”
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