A marriage that teaches lessons for today’s life – Mehr news agency Iran and world’s news

According to Mehr reporter, on the occasion of the anniversary of the marriage of Hazrat Ali (AS) and Hazrat Fatima Zahra (S), Hojjatul Islam Taher Qolizadeh Mohammadi, in a note about this event as a marriage that teaches lessons for the life of mankind today, has raised some points that you will read below:

Undoubtedly, the Ahl al-Bayt (peace be upon them) who, according to the statement of God Almighty in the noble verse, “Indeed, Allah wants to remove the abominations from you, O Ahl al-Bayt, and purify you.” [احزاب / ۳۳] They are far from any evil and error and can be considered perfect models for humanity on the way to happiness and success.

And naturally, the more a person makes himself like these stars free from defects, the more he can increase the percentage of his distance from error and strengthen the possibility of achieving victory and happiness. peace be upon him, he will be caught in a dangerous quagmire that can affect both this world and the hereafter.

Among many issues, one of the events that can be considered as an important challenge for our country is the issue of marriage!

The matter of marriage, after which a girl and a boy commit themselves to each other in the form of Sharia and legal frameworks, is one of the most important matters in all societies, especially Islamic Sharia, which is highly recommended in religious texts. It is as emphasized in a narration of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace: “The best marriages are the ones that are easier to do.” [نهج الفصاحه ص ۴۷۰]

If it was really easy to get hold of the thoughts and actions of families and young people, we could certainly witness a different situation at the level of society.

Of course, taking it easy does not mean crossing the red lines and ignoring the logical requirements in the matter of marriage, but it means to skip everything that is not necessary and without it, it is possible to start a family and get two people together.

Avoiding some customs and traditions for which no rational or Shariah necessity can be considered is one of the necessary things to reduce the marriage age and to have happy marriages, which can be seen as pure examples in the life of the Ahl al-Bayt. The most special of these marriages can be considered the marriage of Amir al-Mu’minin Ali (peace be upon him) and Hazrat Zahra (peace be upon him).

With little attention in this holy marriage, to the unique points including the time and manner of marriage of these two leaders of humanity and the preference of the spiritual status of Hazrat Ali (peace be upon him) over the special material status of other suitors and the type of dowry that was determined and the way of preparation of the dowry that was prepared. we will arrive

These days, the existence of economic problems in all societies, including our beloved country, cannot be denied, but when we pay attention to the type of interaction of Rasul Mehrabani, for example, regarding the financial matters related to the mentioned marriage, many thoughts and behaviors are wrong, which can lead to self-made problems. The issue of unmarried marriage gained awareness and in order to correct it, it had the appropriate culture.

As we read in the hadiths, when Amir al-Momineen, peace be upon him, proposed marriage and the stages of accepting him were completed, the Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said to him: “Do you have anything to set as a dowry for your wife?” Amir al-Mominin said: My parents are your sacrifices, you know very well about my life that I have nothing but swords, armor and camels. And the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, after confirming this word, said: Your sword is needed during the campaign against the enemies; And you should also water the palm tree with a camel, and use it in your travels; Therefore, you can only give the armor as a dowry to your wife, and I married my daughter Fatima, peace and blessings be upon him, to you in front of this armor.” [احقاق الحق، جلد ۱۰، صفحه ۳۵۸]

According to the narration of Sheikh Tusi, Imam Ali (PBUH) sold their armor and handed it over to the Prophet (PBUH) and the Prophet (PBUH) gave some of that money to Bilal Abyssinian to buy perfume for their daughter who was going to be a bride, and then the rest of the money was used to buy The necessities of life were given to Ammar Yasir and several companions. [امالی، ص ۴۰ و ۴۱]

Therefore, for a marriage with these characteristics and with this level of ease, it is not far from the mind that the interpretation of the verses of Surah Al-Rahman which says: “Maraj al-Bahrain-e Yaltaqiyan-e…yakharuj menhama al-lulu’u wa al-marjan” is related to it and narrates its fruits. As it is mentioned in the hadiths, the meaning of two seas is Hazrat Ali and Hazrat Fatima, and the meaning of pearl is Imam Hassan and the meaning of coral is Imam Hussain (peace be upon him). [مجمع البیان فی تفسیر القرآن، ج ‏۹، ص: ۳۰۶]

By looking carefully at what has come, it is clear that the wrong views about the criteria for choosing a spouse, as well as the dos and don’ts that some people have made for themselves, especially regarding the material aspects of marriage, are very far from the demands of Islam and the way of the innocents, which in case of changing the current lifestyle and approaching According to the wishes of those loved ones, we can witness more suitable events in cultural and social affairs.