According to the narration of his wife / Haj Qasem, what did the martyr Sardar Pourjafari say to his loyal friend?

Life Group; Mina Forghani: “My dear brother Hussein; Thirty years later, especially in these twenty years, when your breath was constantly breathing, I am making my first journey without you. During the trip, I called out many times as usual … I looked many times; you were missed. It turned out that I loved you very much. Dear Hussein; You had a relationship with me that your children certainly did not have with you and you did not have with your children and my children did not have with me. “You always took care not only of my body, but also of my soul …” This is a part of Sardar Soleimani’s letter to his friend, Sardar Hossein Pourjafari. Martyr Pourjafari, a loyal friend of Hajj Qasim, who was assassinated together at Baghdad airport, is not known to many of us. Because, according to his relatives, he was a Ferrari camera. Even our efforts to find a few family films came to a standstill, and except for a few photos, we did not get much.

We visited the house of Sardar Hossein Pourjafari so that Ms. Zahra Ghasemi, the wife of this precious martyr, could tell us about her personality traits and way of life.

1) How did Sardar Pourjafari treat his family? How did this great martyr treat his family members and what was their relationship with the family?

The martyr was very calm and patient. He was more of a listener. He was very sensitive about halal and haram. He was very upset and joked. He was very cheerful. We lived together for 38 years and he was always famous and loved by the whole family. Even his siblings say, “There was only one of us children.” We have two daughters and two sons. He treated brides like his daughters and grooms like his sons. He had a special respect for them. We had a simple life together. I Was Satisfied. I did not expect much from him. It was so good. He had a special calm.

He was sensitive to promises and appointments. If he was with someone at 3 o’clock and he came at 3:30, he would get angry. There were a lot of rules in his work. If a party was to come to them from another country, he would plan and follow up on all the details as soon as he was informed. He was very honest in his work.

He prays first. He reads a lot of Quran. He sent Salawat all the way to and fro. He was very important in performing his duties.

He was very hospitable. It did not matter if my family was our guest or his family. He and I did not have it at all. He tried to do good deeds. When we went to Golbaf, he visited all his brothers and sisters.

2) How did you and Martyr Pourjafari get to know each other?

Haj Agha was my father’s cousin. He was in Golbaf until the third grade, then he went to the conservatory in Kerman. In the year 1960, an earthquake struck Golbaf and destroyed houses. The reconstruction organization had built two rooms for us that had windows facing the alley. My father would leave his car behind the window. Once when I came out of the yard, my eyes fell on the window and I saw him sitting on my father’s car. When I went out, I lowered my head. We were both shy. A few days later, her aunt came and said, “Hussein wants your daughter.” We got married on September 13, 2006. Our purchase was brief; Ring, mirror and a shirt. The reconstruction organization also built two rooms for us, and three months later we went to our house. He went to the front after 35 days and returned 4 months later. He had become an RPG in the 22nd of Bahman Battalion. His father said that they would be martyred sooner than anyone else, because they were the first line. But God wanted him to stay.

Mehr 62 My son was born. When it was quarterly, Haj Agha went to the front again and met Sardar Soleimani during this expedition. From 1976, when we came to Tehran until his martyrdom, he was everywhere with Sardar and his side. He loved her very much. He even consulted with Sardar Soleimani for the marriage of all four of our children.

3) What would you say if you wanted to talk about your life with a martyr? That is, tell us how you spent your time with the commander?

Many people weave carpets in Golbaf. Haj Agha also earns his living by weaving carpets from the fourth grade. We got married in 1961 and we were Golbaf until 1965. We were weaving carpets with Haj Agha. Our living expenses were low. We bought a house and a car with this carpet weaving. Until 1976, when we came to Tehran (at that time we were supposed to stay in Tehran for a year), we also went to Mecca and Syria and sold our house and bought a bigger house. Haj Agha used to go to those areas with Sardar Soleimani during the insecurity in the southeast of Kerman (Jiroft, Kahnooj, etc.). In Tehran, we no longer had a suitable place to hang carpets. Sardar Soleimani said that we should hang him in a warehouse 16 meters from the house. But Haj Agha said it was hot here, it could not be. He himself no longer had time to help me with carpet weaving.

When we were in Kerman, he had more free time. We also lived in Ahvaz for two or three periods. Because I loved my life and Haj Agha very much, I went with him. Ullmann was eleven months old when he was born. Because it was difficult to take care of them alone, I left the first one with my mother and we took the second one with us to Ahvaz. After the kids got older, we took them both. During the war, we went to Ahvaz four times and stayed for several months each time.

4) What was your family fun? How did the martyrs spend their time when they were at home?

As long as we were in Kerman, we would go to Mashhad once a year and spend the weekends; Because our families were there.

When we first arrived in Tehran, there was no news of war or ISIS, their work was lighter. On Fridays we went out with the kids; Lavasan, Imam Khomeini shrine, Golzar Shohada and ….

When he came home, he rarely went out. He was very interested in sports competitions. At home, he watched the sports network.

But lately, he has not had much free time. I would call at noon on Thursday and jokingly say, “The dead are also free on Thursdays. “Come home and have lunch together.” “Would you kill me if I came?” I would say, “You come, I’ll kill sheep too.” “No,” he said. “If I come, I will eat yogurt at home.” But he rarely came home on Thursdays. If Sardar Soleimani went home, he would come too. Sometimes it did not come on Fridays.

He did not sleep at all. Even when it was 2-3 midnight, eight-thirty in the morning, the breakfast table was wide. After breakfast, he would say, “If we need to buy something,” we would go shopping. I have rheumatoid arthritis. So he washed all the fruit himself and put it in the refrigerator. He opened the tap very little so as not to waste it.

In the afternoon, the children came and we were together. They had more and better relationships with their grandchildren than I did. He put them on his chest and played with them.

Earlier, when they were more alone, we would break their fast during the holy month of Ramadan. During the whole month of Ramadan, we would break our fast together for maybe ten to twelve days; The rest was a mission.

5) What was their upbringing style? Did they have any special advice for you kids?

Golbaf did not have a kindergarten. Haj Agha asked me to work on the Quran with the children. I would teach them the short chapters of part thirty, and they would recite them to their father when he came. In Kerman, we also had a Quran meeting with our neighbors, where the children also came and recited short chapters.

He always advised children to get halal and believed that this would lead to a good outcome. Did not have much opportunity; With a few exceptions, I was in charge of everything related to the kids going to college.

But once a few years ago he said, “Boys get married, but girls control.” See where they go? “Who are their friends?” My eldest daughter was married at the time. I said, “Peace of mind!” I am careful. “Since the children were in the third grade, every night when they slept, I would sneak up on their closets and bags and put everything back on Josh so that they would not notice.” Until a few months ago, the kids did not know I was doing this.

6) Where and how did Sardar Pourjafari become a veteran?

In 1964, he became a veteran in Hur al-Azim. He explained that they had a trench on a bridge with several other people. After twelve days on the water, they headed for the headquarters. Two of their own boats collide and Haj Agha, who was in front of one of the boats, is injured in the head and thrown into the water. Then the boat passes over him and breaks his back. Martyr Mir Hosseini and several others think that Haj Agha was martyred and his body was pulled out of the water. When they reach land, they put him on a stretcher to take him to the morgue. Haj Agha heard people say “it’s over!”, But he could not speak. He points with his hand that he is alive. His whole back was in plaster for three months and he had a month of absolute rest.

7) What period do you have the best memories of with Sardar?

In 1997, we went to Mecca together. The protection of his workplace was said to be dangerous and he might be arrested in Saudi Arabia, but he came with me. When we arrived in Mecca, everyone said he would be arrested at the airport. I recited a verse from Surah Ar-Rahman to him and I died; Thank God we did not get into trouble and we were rejected.

We went to the Holy Mosque every morning at eight o’clock. In Mecca, we set up a bus. The first night, everything I expected did not come. It was so late that the Isha prayer began. I thought he had been arrested. I was constantly going back and forth and looking for it; But it was not. I decided to go back to the hotel and tell the person in charge of the caravan. As soon as I started walking, I saw that Hajj Agha was going ahead of me. I tapped him on the shoulder. “They closed the way to God,” he said. “Whatever I did, I could not come.”

We left at eight in the morning, and returned two in the evening. We went four in the afternoon until 7-8 in the evening. We went again until twelve nights until the morning call to prayer. It was the same every day. He did not sleep at all. Our best memories are of that trip to Mecca.

8) They did not talk about their testimony?

When the war in Syria was very intense, he sometimes said something; But not lately.

The last time we went to Kerman, one of their relatives had died. Because Hajj Agha was a mission, we reached the seventh ceremony. When we got to our house (in Kerman), I said, “Shall we visit my father?” He said, “Let’s go.” While he always said when we arrived, “I’m tired. “Let’s go later.” When we went to Golbaf, Haj Agha also looked at his sister. When we returned, all my brothers and sisters came one by one. My brother said, “Haji, I had a dream this time. “Can you see me again?” My father also told me, “Stop it. “Let him go.” “I will not be his opponent,” I said.

Sometimes when we talked, I would say, “Write a will.” “Whatever God wills,” he said. I made his own aqeeqah. All the hardships and dangerous operations were over, but some of them were martyred.

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