As a brother, he is a father to 150 people / This house is your home forever
Fars news – Soodabeh RanjbarThe word “my children, my darling, my son, my daughter” does not fall out of his mouth when he opens his mouth. He has been in love with them all these years. This can be understood from his emotional feelings today. When he speaks of his 150 children, his eyes glaze over at the mention of the names of the singles. Love runs in his arms as they swing in the air, just like a father embracing all 150 children under his wings and jumping. He was not more than 20 or 21 years old in those days when he entered the heroic circle of supporting orphaned children. He was too young for Dad to call him. At that time, the name “Dadash Yusuf” sat well on him; But now that his hair and virtues have turned white, he becomes more like a father, especially since he has been in the name of a brother and in the capacity of a father all these years. “Everyone knows Yusuf Aslani, both those who have a good hand and those who mourn for their kindness, but this time we intend to see” Yusuf Aslani “from the perspective of a father on the eve of Father’s Day and suggest that all fathers report this report.” Be sure to read his paternalistic lifestyle to make your heart feel better than good.
His lifestyle is exemplary
Yousef Aslani started supporting spontaneous children in 2000 in a spontaneous action. From the very beginning, he took care of 20 children. Children who are younger today. Now the number of children he has taken care of is 150. Healthy and physically disabled children who live in the house of Imam Reza’s paradise. He came to talk about his new plans to further support the disabled community. He complained about the stone-throwing, that he was blocking his work, and that he was talking about things that were being ignored. He beat everyone with his profession; His words were very relevant and important; But when it comes to the lifestyle of him and his children. We were amazed at all the kindness, all the mutual affection between him and his children from the large family he built and rightly fathered. Yes, we left all his important words for another time, especially when Mr. Yousef told his grandchildren that they are now 4 and he and his wife are going to have 4 more grandchildren by Eid night. When Mr. Yousef talks about his young sons, sugar melts in his heart. These days, youth has become so difficult that Mr. Yousef’s fatherly feelings are exemplary. The words of his lucky boys and girls become more and more unbearable. Just like fathers who, at the height of their kindness, worry about their children’s future. Not only the children, but also the love of brides. For several years, she has been appearing in the height and size of her father-in-law, and Al-Haq has also performed her ritual. We learned this from his whites.
Mr. Yousef did not think at all that this part of the conversation would be so interesting to us that it would be a priority. Like a father who talks about his children by remembering them so that his momentary nostalgia will be relieved. Mr. Yousef is very familiar with the emotional connection between his sons and daughters-in-law. His love can be understood from his smiles and hatreds from time to time. He did not seem to utter many words between the family, but as soon as he remembered them, he had a crush on him.
When my boys fall in love
I ask, what were the best moments you spent with your children?
He, who until a few minutes ago constantly reminded the rights of all homeless children to protect his children, suddenly laughed on his face and paused for a moment: “The best moment is when they want to tell a lover about marriage. My God, what a good moment. They were small, they came to our house when they were three or five years old, and now they are so big that they want to add another person to our family. They often ask me to marry them, my wife or the friends who are with us. You have to be and see that moment. My children are very modest. They turn red and white when it comes to marriage and falling in love. Or when they want to propose to a girl.
I ask what you say in this situation: “Although the sugar melts in our hearts and we say Mashallah Mashallah a thousand times in our hearts, but we forcefully tell them that we should also comment and the opinion of the family is important. Like all Iranian families where parents have to like their bride and groom. Of course, when we see that they are heartbroken, we are less strict. We always go courting with my wife. We make an appointment in advance. Like all ceremonies where boys go courting with their parents. We buy a bouquet and make a check. We stay with our children forever. “We are by their side for employment, housing, weddings and so on. After all, we are a family.”
You are the child of this house until you are married
I ask how old are your children?
“Well, the answer is clear until they get married; Just like a genuine Iranian family with an Islamic lifestyle and … »
Yousef Aslani’s career is not over. But my mind goes to the fact that now many families who can even reach their mouths do not shy away from the independence and separation of their children. Then Mr. Yusuf will keep 150 children in his shadow until they get married !?
Before I ask my question, it is as if Mr. Yousef guessed my next question out of surprise at my face.
“My children stay in Imam Reza’s paradise house like a noble Iranian-Islamic family to provide for their marriage,” he said. These days, they want to force us to feed the culture of the West, but it is not possible. Some time ago, in a Westernized seminar, a motivational seminar defined the independence of children after the legal age, so that young Europeans could become independent of their families before marriage and stand on their own two feet. Where does this view and approach fit into our culture? Yes, our society needs scientific, economic, medical and other advances; But our Iranian and Islamic way of life is very rich. We have no gap in this to want to become Westernized. Incidentally, in the field of family preservation and the preservation of youth and adolescents, the Iranian family is a perfect model in the world, and this is our greatest social capital. Why should our young people be separated from their families and fall into the wolf’s mouth? Family means uncle, aunt, uncle, aunt, grandfather and grandmother. The family means cousin, cousin, cousin, cousin, etc. We who do not have these in our house appreciate them very well. The personality of the children is complemented by the individual members of the family. You do not know how hard we try to fill this gap for our children, children who do not have parents, and this pain is not small, but we always keep the conditions of our home happy so that my children can smile and the children will not be sad and depressed. We tried very hard to change their view of society. My children stay at home to get married whenever they want. “They stay at home to learn to love well and to be able to form a family and water their next family with love.”
The wedding party is on its way
During the interview, Mr. Yousef’s phone rings a lot. He leaves no call unanswered, albeit with a small message, but to interrupt one of the calls, he interrupts the interview and answers: “Hello, Mr. Groom.” He pauses and listens to the words on the other side of the line, saying, “We are getting a wedding hall, but things are not good now. Corona and omicron infection are more dangerous, son John. I promised you wait. We actually bought a TV table and put it in the parking lot. Congratulations, leave it on the dowry. “We will match the rest together. Do not worry.”
Apparently, behind the line is one of Mr. Yousef’s sons, who is preparing for his marriage and has rustled his back for public imagination.
Do you have a guest on Father’s Day?
I ask, do your children visit you after marriage? Do they come home? For example, now that it is Father’s Day, may they come to see you?
There was laughter on his face, why not? We are a family. Just like a boy who, after marriage, visits his father’s house and takes the bride, and all the family members are happy and smoke in March. “My children are very knowledgeable. I love them very much.”
I ask: Basically, young people are reluctant to tell others that we do not have parents. They may even hide this from their new family. What did you do that the children like to go home?
Imam Reza’s Paradise House has been a home for them. My children used to go to school every day before Corona. Everyone who returned home had to study. Their job was to study. It was playing. After Corona, we bought a tablet for all of them so that they would not miss their lessons. Each has its own room. We are a family of 100 staff. These children serve these children with love. We make thousands of meals a day and buy 600 loaves of bread every day. These are blessings. “Laughter and joy reign in our house and we try to fill the vacancy of parental love.”
85 martyrs who grew up in welfare
“I always tried to make Behesht Reza’s house their home, but an idea came to my mind and the same idea brightened my eyes. A few years ago, with a few friends, we tried to identify the martyrs who grew up in welfare. We found that 85 children of welfare had been martyred during the years of holy defense. Some of them were married, we found their families, we went to see them, successful families, but none of their wives were satisfied to announce that their husbands had grown up in welfare. Because the people of the society did not have a positive view of the welfare and the centers that supported these children. Do you know why? Because it was not cultured. Every time a sequence of a welfare film was shown on TV, it was autumn. It was a disappointment. They were crows. And a yard full of yellow autumn leaves. In fact, they showed people depression. “Since that day, I have tried not only to change the society’s view of these centers, but also to change the children’s view of these centers. This is why boys now take their wives and children by the hand and come home.”
Like all father-in-laws, he is kind
I ask, are you with them in resolving family disputes?
Mr. Yusef laughs loudly again and says, “It just so happened that a few days ago, at dusk, my phone rang. He was one of my brides.” I’m afraid he will not come home at night. Can you call him and tell him to come home and apologize to me when he comes?
I called my son to pick up the phone and he said: … Did he call you? I said, “Yes, go home.” go fast. “Be sure to apologize to your wife!”
“I’m going home, but in two hours,” he said. “I will leave soon.”
I said, “Go baby. When you get home, you will apologize, remember the boys »
I called my bride the next day to ask how she was, she was happy and cheerful. “He came home half an hour after I called you last night,” he said. “But Baba apologized only once!”
Mr. Yousef laughs when he arrives here and says, “In short, I persuaded my bride to agree to my son’s apology at once.”
He is silent and after a few moments he says: “God willing, all young people will be happy, as will my young people and children.”
In the midst of Mr. Yousef’s career, I realize that he does not only care for the children under Imam Reza’s Paradise Charity. He cares for everyone.
He has more children
Mr. Yousef Aslani has been kind of happy when he talks about his children so far in the interview, but when he talked about a mother who called him several times and asked for help, and his presence at his mother’s house was delayed, he told us the rest of the story. “I went to my old mother’s house. She had two disabled children, one forty years old and the other 36 years old. He had raised both of them with a crooked stature all these years without having any help from anyone, but he still smelled of house infection due to their special circumstances and their dependence on the bed. “He lost his wife many years ago and had a young and healthy daughter who helped him.”
Mr. Yusuf, as soon as he reached his words, a tear fell in his eyeball: “The old woman did not want anything from me. nothing. He only said, “My third child, save my daughter. She is young and healthy. Every suitor who comes goes because of the circumstances of the house and does not look behind him. Come courting for one of your sons. It was very painful for a mother who has been suffering from bedridden children for many years without a husband, and now her only concern is the happiness of her third daughter, who is in good health and the marriage conditions are not ready for her. “I did not know what to say.”
The story of Mr. Yusuf becoming a father is not complete. It is even possible to write his father’s stories in a book that should be written now.
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