Do not be a reporter of your personal life / If I do not post a photo, they say it is not happy!

Family group:With the rise of social media among all people, the need to produce content in it was felt by all people. In a way that different people were trying to work in this new world with their own style and context. It was the first and most direct type of daily writing activity. In this way, people shared their emotions and even their inner conversations in order to share their feelings with others on the network, and as Instagram flourished, photos were added to the virtual content production cycle, as photo production became a daily occurrence. It was far easier to produce text and content. It flourished among the general public, and they felt they had to publish various photos of their daily lives and personal events in order to be present on the network. A feeling that eventually became a serious challenge for some. In such a way that if they do not know about themselves, they have lost something. They had become reporters of their own personal lives. In this report, we talk about this challenge on social media.

If I do not publish the photo, they say he is not happy!

Surely you have friends among you who every year try to make the various ceremonies of their lives such as wedding, wedding or birthday anniversary as glorious as possible and publish his photos on their Instagram page. If before, publishing a photo of a personal life relationship was simply a matter of sharing a good feeling with friends and acquaintances, it gradually became a mental challenge for those whose minds are heavily involved in these relationships, both in their own lives and in the lives of others. The challenge that a person feels will be judged if he does not publish a good photo of his birthday or if he does not cover his ceremony well on social media, and the audience and those around him will feel that he does not have a good life or is insignificant to others. Therefore, every year, he spends more obsession and tries to hold his private life ceremonies in front of the camera in a more glorious and beautiful way, so that the photos narrate his happiness and happiness, even if he is bothered by extreme tiredness and stress. Unfortunately, the narrative lifestyle acts like a virus, and even viewers of user photos feel compelled to be in the circle with new photos.

Rate my fun and happiness!

Some psychologists believe that man today feels the need to narrate every moment, and this sense of narration has strongly influenced him. In such a way that if he travels, he feels that he should and should take photos of the smallest and even most irrelevant things possible and publish them for his audience. He no longer takes personal photos as a souvenir. Rather, it frames them for sharing in the first place. He thinks that if he does not do this behavior, he will lose something or he will not even enjoy it. It should be said that yes, in some trips, such as trips made by journalists or event narrators and tourists, the audience is eager to be with them on this trip, and they also try to make good use of the social network platform and share their observations and views through the network. Reach the audience. Most of these trips, even if they are personal, have elements of surprise and charm and are different from personal life and sharing private moments. For example, every year, Iranians from all walks of life travel to Arbaeen and tell about the events of their trip and the culture of the Iraqi people on social media, and accompany their audiences, and even make them partners in their prayers, pilgrimages and deeds. But the story becomes very personal when a couple who have gone on a honeymoon feel that they have to publish each and every moment of the trip, their joys, their food and even their romantic photos and personal moments to show their love for each other and even feedback and confirmation from their audience. Take happiness. It has often happened that when people travel to a certain city, they feel that in order to post a photo of it on Instagram, they must have a meal in a special and famous restaurant that travelers go to a lot in order to perform the rituals of travel properly, and this Show the audience the right fit so they can rate their trip!

From a restless romance to an untimely divorce!

Last summer, the birthday party of one of the Instagram influencers in one of the passages of Tehran was made by her husband. A ceremony in which the gentleman is taken to the food court and hidden cameras film the lady. Then, on Al-Syedi’s page, congratulations are given in the form of broadcasting news of Ms.’s birthday, and at once the whole area gathers around them, and Mr.’s recites a poem for Ms. that he has composed and composed music. An all-encompassing romantic and cinematic event that was able to go viral on Instagram in a short period of time and once again multiply the names of these two Instagram faces. The millions of followers of this page have always wished the couple happiness on the Instagram scene and even expressed their longing for such a ceremony. A couple who, over the years of their activity on Instagram, have repeatedly emphasized their differences of faith and even written the story of their love and romance and marriage in detail on a separate site and page. but this is not the whole story. In less than a year since the release of this clip and these breathtaking and attractive romances, the news of the couple’s separation spread, and this separation even led to conflicts and Instagram revelations! Users who longed for this love life and true and attractive love yesterday are now simply witnessing the revelations of a couple who once lived together under one roof. A roof whose rental advertisement was even published on the Divar website. A few days ago, Ms. Influencer released a new clip from her birthday this year, referring to her different lifestyle, in which she mentioned the different mood of her days and showed her audience that she is fine. He needed to feel that because he had talked about his birth last year and that romantic surprise, he should have something to say this year as well, to narrate the difference between his days and to say that he was fine!

From narration to narration!

Extreme narratives of personal life inevitably lead to narratives after a while. Except how much you can produce a narrative incident every day and every day in a normal personal life. How many times a year are your birthdays and wedding anniversaries? But what happens to you during the week that is not repetitive and can be said. Can you generate content from your personal life every day? Yes, the answer is absolutely no. This is why many Instagram users engage in storytelling and feed their web pages from these narratives. They need to publish something of their joy to be seen every day. But no normal life is full of constant photos and pleasures every day. That’s why they may plan their events for the next month on Instagram in advance, and one day, with the number of photos they are going to publish in a month, they will take regular photos and videos, and finally publish them in the name of their daily lives. They even post romantic photos during their fights! It is so unusual that the news of their separation is surprising. “A private life is a happy life,” says an English proverb.

So the best result is that in order to enjoy and even be happier in life, it is better not to post our private life on social networks! And do not be a reporter or narrator of your personal life.

In later Life Service reports, we will explain why private life should not be published on social media.

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