Heavy dowry does not make any girl happy / Do not blame your bride for the simplicity of dowry

Life group:The Supreme Leader of the Islamic Revolution has repeatedly emphasized in his speeches that couples and families should follow the example of Hazrat Zahra, peace be upon him, and provide simple dowries to start life, and ignore luxuries, eyes and all eyes. In the following, you will read the important recommendations of the Supreme Leader regarding the purchase of dowry.

Set an example for Hazrat Zahra

“I think that in the dowry of Hazrat Zahra (PBUH) such simplicity was observed … they kept this limit. This had a symbolic aspect. “In order to be the basis for people to act on it, so that they do not face these problems that arise due to excesses.”
_{Sermon of the contract 1377/4/18}

Do not overdo it!

“The mothers of the brides should be involved in the preparation of the dowry, and should not be too extravagant. Do not say that now, for example, she is our daughter, she is heartbroken. No! Girls are good, girls do not want to. “We should not inadvertently draw their hearts to the fact that everything beautiful and luxurious and … must be provided for it.”
_{Sermon of the contract 1379/11/16}

Do not follow false customs

“All kinds of waste, extravagance, wrongdoing, heavy dowries. They must buy all kinds of things, bring them and put them in the dowry, so that they have at least one more thing than their cousin, or I do not know her sister, or their neighbor or their classmate. These are very insidious and annoying mistakes, for human beings and for people. Many girls can not go to the lucky house, many boys can not get married, because of these things. Because of these troubles. If marriage was easy, if people were not so strict, some if their dowry was not heavy, if these dowries were not ignorant, and the parents did not throw themselves into water and fire in order not to break their daughter’s heart, these troubles for many “Families did not come forward.”
^{Sermon of the contract 1372/10/26}

Heavy dowry does not guarantee happiness

“A large dowry does not make any girl happy and does not bring any family the necessary peace, tranquility and trust. These are the angles of life. “It is the curiosity of life and it is of no use except for trouble and the cause of trouble and the cause of problems.”
_{Sermon of the contract 1375/9/18}

Do not borrow money to buy dowry

“Do not go and borrow money, make dowry. Do not bother yourself. Do not bother your family. “Do not think that if your daughter’s dowry was less than the neighbor’s daughter’s relative, it is a failure.”
_{Sermon of the contract 1381/3/29}

Do not insist on being the head of the family

“Some people try to give dowry to all the people, relatives, neighbors, friends and acquaintances, which is also wrong … You have to look and see what is right, what is right to do it. What is right? “A family of two needs the tools to have a simple life.”
_{Sermon of the contract 1379/8/3}

Do not create a heavy dowry in society

“Do not let the dowries be heavy. Girls do not leave. Do not leave your brides. “Parents, if you want, do not leave.”
_{Sermon of the contract 1373/9/23}

You are not going to provide all the necessary and unnecessary equipment!

“From the beginning, some people provide everything, small and large, necessary and unnecessary, for their daughter as a dowry, so that she is not less than a girl, I do not know, her cousin, or her sister, or her current, for example. These are not true. This is wrong. Your troublemaker. “The fact that he has no reward for God is not a cause for gratitude.”
_{Sermon of the contract 1378/9/2}

Do not blame your bride for the simplicity of the dowry

“Some bridal families harass and harass themselves, and even if they do not have money, they make money with difficulty. “If they have money, they spend a lot of money to give their daughter a glittering detailed dowry, for example.”
_{خبه‌ی عقد 1377/12/28}

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