Hijab raises the level of personal dignity / How do we relax with hijab?
Family group: Many activists in the field of psychology believe that wearing and wearing hijab in any culture and religion will bring a sense of security and peace of mind for the individual and his community. This hijab has been defined in Islam in its religious limits, and in other religions it has always shown that it is worn and covered in a firm and simple manner, the modesty and modesty of women and even men. Therefore, they believed that covering covers the gender of people and makes them be seen regardless of their gender and engage in their social activities in a calmer and safer environment and develop their talents.
On the pretext of the unfortunate day of the discovery of Reza Khani hijab, we talked to psychologist “Zeinab Sabzali” to learn more about the psychological aspects of hijab. In the leading report, Ms. Sabzali has mentioned these psychological aspects of hijab and its effect on the personality of individuals in several cases.
Hijab is an opportunity for character development
Regarding the hijab and the issue of psychology, I think the most important question we have to answer is: is the opportunity for personality development provided by observing the hijab more or not?
I do not mean hijab, it means to keep cover, and more importantly, hijab means “sight”, which means covering the eyes. The person who is constantly worried about his beauty and tries to show his body more and more every day, has more opportunities to know his abilities and can better realize his personality or the one who thinks in the garden. has done?
We need to know that personality is a set of thoughts and emotions and habits and morals that make human beings different from other people.
It is a set of physical, mental and behavioral traits and characteristics that make human beings and give them personality. Pays higher than his needs. That is, it transcends physical needs, security needs, feelings of belonging and love, and reaches the level where it wants to flourish on its own and seeks to actualize itself.
Hijab raises the level of personal dignity
Another point is that “Eric Fromm” says that a grown man or a fertile man is a man who satisfies his psychological needs in ways that are creative and fruitful. The most effective factor in the development of personality is the rational satisfaction of psychological needs, not physical needs. That is, we are now overcoming the level of hunger and thirst and even sexual needs.
People are considered to be irrational and immature human beings who meet their needs in an irrational way.
What I want to say is whether drowning in ostentation leads to focusing on finding one’s own path.
Does not a person whose life is not under the control of his will and does not seek his own identity feel defeated? Doesn’t he feel empty in his life after 60 to 70 years? And does not this growing and changing taste of society affect his life?
Psychologically, the most definitive factor in human development is the amount of value that each person places on himself. The most influential factor in human psychological and personality development, “Level of self-respect” Is; That is, the degree of evaluation of each person from the level of acceptance in his own opinion! This judgment that human beings make about themselves is both verbal and non-verbal. Then a person comes to himself somewhere (basically in old age) whether I have been successful in valuing myself in my life or not.
This “level of self-esteem” has a huge impact on emotional-social-emotional adaptations and is one of the key determinants in shaping our behavioral and emotional patterns.
If everyone at that age reaches the point where they have not been able to reveal their abilities in their lives and are leaving this scene of life, they will have a completely unpleasant feeling that causes those last years of life to be full of unhappiness and bad mood.
Another question I always ask myself about hijab is how can this valuable feeling be achieved now? How is it included in this cover? What can the cover mean?
Show-off is inherently fleeting satisfaction
Of course, I also know that showing off within oneself also has an immediate and fleeting sense of satisfaction, which in itself is very attractive and makes people feel even more confident and satisfied. But it must be said that this kind of feeling of satisfaction is due to immediate and fleeting ostentation. But every human being must come to this conclusion, and with words and advice it may be of no use.
A society in which ostentation and nudity is the principle does not tolerate scientific thought
My feeling and opinion is that in a society where nudity flows in its arteries, whether male or female, and human beings are constantly comparing what they have and what they do not have, there is a constant anxiety and a constant apprehension; There is a competition and comparison in the field that asks “who is better?” And every day this “who is better?” And that always makes life harder for the people in this space. Every day, this current exists in a way and in a way, and this competition is constantly getting closer. People are also looking for greedy diversity, and this causes the mental peace of human beings to be completely disturbed, and this polluted thought and polluted atmosphere, which fills the minds of people with this diversity, leaves no opportunity for initiative and creativity. A mind that is constantly capturing the hearts of others and attracting the attention of others, never abandons scientific thought and can not make new findings in its mind at all. He only seeks to be liked in the present situation; Not to change the situation with his initiative and creativity and have a new plan and want to do something that is free from what exists in society.
The person with the hijab satisfies his sense of superiority in a more sensible way
In psychology we also talk about the “inferiority complex”. According to Adler, all of us human beings are born with inferiority complexes and experience this from birth. This inferiority complex is constantly interacting with another need and in another way, and that is self-exaltation and self-exaltation.
Many people want to cover up this pursuit of superiority with physical features and ostentation and pursue it and satisfy the inferiority complex with it. But I think this will be quite instantaneous and fleeting. While this compensation is the easiest way to achieve this feeling, it is definitely not the best way! A person who wears a hijab satisfies this feeling of need in a more sensible way, and in his way the best way is not to compensate for the feeling of worth by being available to others.
A conversation now came to my mind from a foreign philosopher; I think it was Will Durant who said that women realized that gambling was ridiculous and humiliating. This is perhaps the shortest philosophy for the hijab. Finally, if a person refers to his own intellect and nature and goes a little beyond the level of daily needs and worries, he will realize that what he is looking for is very dear and precious, and by keeping himself away from the reach of others, he has a valuable level. It promotes itself.
If women fully understood this concept, they would be more inclined to cover and hide their bodies and realize that the way to feel valuable is not to be available and accepted moment by moment.
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