How do we know we are “old”? | Fars news
According to Fars News Agency’s health correspondent, Mansoureh Shahriari Ahmadi, a psychologist in the Persian morning program of Jam Jam network, said: “Aging is not determined by age, but depends on human feeling.” If the feeling of aging and fracture comes to a person soon, it is a negative feeling, but if a person takes a long time to reach this feeling, it is good. When a person knows that he has lived with maturity and continues to live his life with dignity and pride, he does not feel old and does not allow himself to be afraid of aging.
Asked why people feel aging, he said: “Maybe our perceptions of aging are not good or our treatment of older people should not be as it should be, that these people get sad when they look behind them and it makes them feel Grow old.
The psychologist reminded: “A person who knows that he has good achievements up to the point where he stands and is proud of his achievements, on the other hand, is so dynamic and has a goal and plan for the next years of his life that he can feel good about life.” It does not feel old.
Shahriari added: “When we enter the psychology of growth, the developmental stages begin with the formation of the sperm. It is named based on the age range.” But I think what is specified in developmental psychology is different around the world.
He added: “It is better for everyone to refer to their senses to determine the extent of their aging and see how much they are willing to work to make life better.” Staying young, effective communication with oneself and the environment, with the energy of proper planning and goal setting along with positive and meaningful efforts make the individual’s efforts achieve the desired result and do not go wrong, all of which are solutions and signs for not aging.
Shahriari added: “When we are children, we like to grow up so that everyone knows us as adults, and when we grow up, we like to be children; This feeling is due to the fact that in adulthood we are given the three important responsibilities of continuing education, employment and marriage, and after these three responsibilities, it is difficult for human beings to come out and we should not do any of these in society. We feel bad.
He continued: “One of the most important issues that we experience in life is the achievement of dreams.” If we have the right self-awareness during adolescence, we will draw goals, aspirations and the path to achieve them based on our abilities, and it will help us achieve more goals, and as a result, we will not feel failed at older ages.
The psychologist said: “We invest for the next period of our lives for the rest of our lives, and in each period we are the ones who can develop our existential values by looking at ourselves independently and firmly believing in ourselves.” From the end of adolescence, when identity is complete, it is important to know how accurate the content received in the previous period can be to secure the future of one’s life.
Shahriari pointed out: In educational methods, in addition to spending time for the child, the correct way of spending this time is also important and affects the whole life in front of the person. Many people spend a lot of time with their children, but because they do not follow the right path, they do not get the right education.
He said: “If all the stages of development are done properly, the person will not feel old at a young age, but at an older age, but he will still grow up at the same age and may still be motivated to try.” If a person’s past is weak, he will reach old age sooner.
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