In addition to loans, the government should also consider free marriage counseling – Mehr News Agency | Iran and world’s news
According to Mehr News Agency, Hojjat al-Eslam Referring to verse 228 of Surah Al-Baqarah, Nasser Rafi’i stated: This verse is related to the discussion of divorce, and this verse is the beginning of expressing the rules of divorce.
He added: God says in this verse that women who get divorced should keep three chastities, the maximum of which is 3 months, and it may be less.
The seminary professor said that we have several types of divorce: one type of divorce رجعی In this divorce, the man can refer before the expiration of the period, and a kind of divorce Bain Is that it is no longer possible to refer and in order to refer, the contract must be read again; One type of divorce is divorce, which if a woman wants a divorce, she must pay for it Man If he is satisfied, he will divorce and a divorce Fighting Is that both men and women hate men and women who love women می Forgive And the man divorces.
He divorced from مبغوض Most He knew the halal and said: We have a narration that God loves the house where the wedding takes place and does not like the house where the divorce takes place, and Imam Sadiq (as) said that there is nothing more hated than halal among the halal.
Rafi’i by stating that divorce means Refuse “Divorce is a bad and hated thing and should not be increased in society, so it should be prevented by eradicating the reasons for divorce and divorce should be used only in limited cases.”
Referring to the main reasons for divorce, he said: “The first reason for divorce is lust, and we have in the narration that the Prophet (ص) The man who divorced his wife was asked, “Did you see anything wrong with him?” He replied, “No, I did not see anything wrong with him; After a while, the Prophet saw him again and said, “What are you doing?” He said, “I divorced my second wife without seeing her badly.” The Prophet (PBUH) said that God curses men and women who seek diversity and lust.
The religious expert said that some actors regularly promote diversity and carelessness in cyberspace, adding: “These people are role models for young people and they should consider young people because their guilt is no longer individual and personal, but affects all young people.”
He considered the second reason for divorce as problems in choosing a spouse and haste in marriage and added: “Young people should go for counseling before marriage and they should be competent enough to prevent divorce.”
Rafi’i said that in addition to marriage loans, the government should also provide free marriage counseling to young people.
He considered the irresponsibility of men and women as the third and addiction as the fourth cause of divorce and added: “These problems will not be solved by going to prison, but the government and officials must fulfill their duties and prevent the increase in divorce rates by creating jobs and educating young people.”
The seminary professor continued: “Some divorces are also due to the weakness of spirituality, and unfortunately today the number of alcohol and wine drinking has increased, and we should not say something with our profession that promotes these issues in society.”
“People who are married should not be left behind,” he said. treated.
Rafi’i considered the involvement of the family as another factor in divorce and said: “The role of families is supervision, not interference. They did not interfere in their lives.
He said: God says in verse 19 of Surah An-Nisa ‘that even if you do not like your spouse, if you treat him well and do not show him in action, God will give you many good things and will compensate you.
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