Let’s help working children, not pity! / Some simple and inexpensive ways to be kind

group Society; Fars news: Because many of us are concerned about how to help working children to be less harmed and on the other hand not to pity them, pity them or make them dependent on us, we should seek help from an expert and a social damage worker. So that the solutions he offers are the result of experience and not just based on feeling, emotion and time. “Mozhgan Alishahi” is a social worker who has focused on the problems of socially disadvantaged families, especially the children of these families, for several years in Harandi neighborhood. He says: “Our most important help is our compassion and not being aggressive.” In the next steps, other contributions can be made to these two important and effective contributions, which we social damage experts call “mother” contributions, which means vital and important. “Any help without these two conditions and help is not very effective.” The solutions that we review in the following are the result of our conversation with this lady, which are presented briefly and practically.

first aid; Pity and aggression are prohibited!

Working children usually try to attract our attention and help by using sad expressions on their faces. Sometimes they insist that we must buy from them. These two situations cause some of us to have inappropriate reactions. In the first case, we may be caught in the trap of misplaced pity and sympathy. For example, we suddenly reach into our pockets and want to buy all the horoscopes of a fortune-telling child. In the second case, which usually happens when we are in a hurry or when we are tired and bored, we are aggressive against the children’s insistence to buy and help. The first step and help is to hit the off button of the hookah of our emotions in both situations. Take one or two deep breaths. Let’s focus and then buy or talk. Our immediate reaction can be destructive. We do not have the right to depend on or alienate anyone. Children working in the crowded metro are fighting and aggressive, the best way is to keep quiet and inform the metro officials. If a child is too shy to sit on a chair, invite him to come and sit next to us. Let’s spend morals before money and boredom.

second aid; Reasonable and reasonable purchase

It is not the case that all working children are members of the mafia, but in any case, the number of working children is more. Children who need to work and help the family usually have a tidy appearance. They are busy with work and skills. They sell homemade food products. They have a more graceful manner and literature. Children under the cover of the mafia usually have a thin body, aggressive behavior, good clothes but worn, torn and worn. They are a group. They are constantly working together. This separation helps if we are going to buy from children to help the family. The purchase should be reasonable and according to our needs. The money should be paid as much as the purchased item. The statement that the rest of the money is for yourself or I don’t want these goods at all, be it for yourself and sell it again! It crushes the child’s self-esteem. If a child laborer sells dirty, old and useless goods, don’t buy them. We should not allow someone to blackmail us and our emotions.

third aid; buy food

Malnutrition due to mafia abuse, long hours of street work and family livelihood problems are usually the common pain of all working children. We can wash some fruits from the house and take them out with us and give the children a job. You can prepare a bite of bread, cheese and vegetables. Even a simple bite of bread and cheese can provide useful nutrients to the body of working children. If a child asks us to buy dry food for his family, we should refrain. Usually, this is a gang trick. Instead, let’s buy food for him. Open it and give it to him to drink and eat. Do not give unopened food to children, these children are used to turning everything into money and selling it to others. Milk, cake, juice, and fruit are suitable foods. Dried fruit and healthy snacks are usually attractive to them and they are very welcome. Avoid giving them seeds and snacks with skin because they usually leave their waste on the floor.

fourth aid; Give a gift without an expiration date

One of the best hours for teaching children is early morning or late at night. In the middle of the day, children are concerned about earning money and guarding the connection with social activists and you. You can prepare some story books with attractive pictures, watch the pictures and read the stories to them. You can go to hangouts where these kids are and gather together. He read books, poems and stories to them. Between them, he started two competitions, memorizing poems, riddles, etc. You can buy normal wet wipes for children to clean their faces during the day. Buying a hat with a shade is also suitable to protect the skin and head of children from the sun. If we do not intend to buy from the children, there is no need to be bitter, it is enough to say thank you in a good but firm tone and no! let’s say Instead of prying into children’s lives, let them play for a few minutes with our cell phones, which we hold tightly in our hands, or watch and listen to children’s music and poems that we have already downloaded. You can make appointments with the children every week in a public and specific place, practice lessons and educational skills such as types. These children have a thirst and lack of learning. Poems, lessons, stories and tips that they hear from us are a gift without an expiration date for them.

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