Letter Writing; Post a nostalgic move to express your love / affection somewhere other than cyberspace

Life group: Although today’s loves take on a fancy color and romantic sentences are exchanged between couples more than their hair, but these “I love you” are not very durable and soon fade in the eyes of the beloved. Apparently the same “I love you” of the 60’s and 50’s that was written on a piece of straw paper with medicine and a little of those French perfumes were flavored, and then our grandfathers wrapped it in stone and threw it away from everyone’s eyes in the backyard of their beloved house until morning. They did not close their eyes whether it reached him or not; It was more durable and valuable.

The same friends that our grandmothers found with a thousand troubles from the backyard and through the autumn foliage that covered the floor of the yard, and all the time they were looking for her, they were stressed that their gentlemen would not find the paper and gift from their beloved. Has done ?!

Then, until they found the paper, the flowers would bloom from their flowers and turn red and white a thousand times, to read their favorite handwriting and hide it under their sheets, read and unread, and put it in a small box so that no one would find it.

Although expensive and eye-catching gifts, or so-called luxury themselves, are exchanged and liked a lot among today’s couples, but they no longer have the old function, meaning that couples are more of a theatrical love actor than a really happy couple!

In the most optimistic case, they publish a few photos of their luxury gift in cyberspace and show their theatrical love to friends and acquaintances. At the bottom, they write a few love sentences and a letter of gratitude and thank their beloved. Now, if we are lucky and the wife of one of the cyberspace users has not bought a more luxurious gift, then Vavila! Relatives say that they crush the gift on their wife’s head, why did you buy such a thing, but what do I have less than something? And…

Apparently, the same floral chandelier and quilts that our grandfathers used to give as gifts to their wives from King Abdul Azim’s pilgrimage once a few months gave more blessings to the loves, although they did not like it and their double photo was not published with the hashtag “Look what a gentleman did!” But that was enough for them to express their love for each other.

Simply put, today all the loves are dragged into cyberspace, the loves are no longer engraved on paper or on the beloved heart! Emotional words that should be said and heard privately between a couple are now in cyberspace and visible to everyone. That is why it no longer has the value and durability of the old. Because cyberspace lovers are forgotten because of the content traffic of this space and sometimes it is completely erased from the mobile phone memory, but the paper lasts forever and every time you look at it, it makes you feel good for the first time. See that letter and try again.

We suggest you write a letter again to express your love like our grandparents. Leave even a simple sentence on paper. Correspondence with your spouse can be a special and nostalgic move that records your interest in life forever. Like Shamloo’s letters to Aida, which is the dominant force of many loves today. Of course, I’m not saying that you should write so professionally.

Write the words of your heart

You do not need to write a heavy literary text on paper or write a poem, of course, if you can, which is very good, but try to write on paper, all and all the words of your heart. Start by saying how much you love your spouse, share his or her strengths, and talk about the peace of mind you have. Be sure to write down your good memories in the letter and refresh the sweet days of life for your spouse. Do not dwell on the past and emphasize that you are still as interested in him as ever. Rest assured that your spouse will feel better about life after reading these words. You can even write if you are upset and ask your spouse to change his or her style of dealing with an issue.

Set a specific time for your letters

It is best to get the letters you write to your spouse on time. For example, once a week, every month or any date that has a special meaning and concept among you, you can even leave a note every day. This is to your liking, but scheduling emails will add a new and engaging schedule to your daily routine.

Put small gifts next to the letter

Try to make your letters look beautiful and attractive, but we do not mean to spend a lot of money. You can easily prepare envelopes and postcards at a reasonable price, or make and decorate the envelope yourself. Place a bouquet of flowers or a small gift next to your letter.

Do not deliver the letter directly to your spouse

Try to keep your correspondence regular, but do not post yourself. Finding a letter from your spouse is certainly more exciting. Place the letter where your spouse finds himself / herself in his / her daily routine. For example, hide it on a desk or in a bag.

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