Maintain Women’s Day for your spouse with these methods?

Life group; زینب نادعلی: If you are one of those men who are worried about Women’s Day and its congratulations and gifts, but your financial situation does not allow you to prepare a suitable gift for your spouse, in this report we will suggest you solutions that you can use this day to Congratulate your spouse much differently and more beautifully.

Do not be fooled by ads!

Certainly occasions and festivals are a good opportunity for sellers. It does not matter what the seller is. Seller of slippers or gold and valuables ?! Whatever they are and whatever they have, they try to convince you by the trick of advertising that the best gift for a leading occasion is the product they offer. So much so that you may make a hasty decision right away and make an inappropriate purchase. On the other hand, one of their methods in special sales on special days and holidays is to behave in such a way that you think that buying a gift on these occasions is a must, and if for any reason you can not prepare a gift. You are left from the caravan of kind, responsible and professional people!

All you have to do in these days is go to online stores, cyberspace and even local shopping markets, then you will realize that all these shopping centers, regardless of the goods they offer, have special sales for Women’s Day and their advertisements are so successful in convincing people. Have attracted many customers. Of course, we are not against the sale of products, but in this text, we only want to inform you behind the scenes of these advertisements, so that if for any reason you could not buy a gift for your spouse, you will not be ashamed and will not feel defeated.

Do not make bloggers the standard of your life!

Today and tomorrow, cyberspace will be filled with photos of bloggers’ gifts. Gifts that are more than just a symbol of love and intimacy are bought for the purpose of eye and eye and sometimes by force and coercion! It is then that you sit as a woman and long for the prosperous lives of those who only show you the appearance of their lives. Bloggers’ expensive gifts certainly detract from the value of a simple gift your spouse has lovingly provided for you. We have said many times that bloggers are not good role models for you. So in addition to trying not to miss their artificial and physical pleasures, stop pursuing them for the health of your life!

Do not condition your love!

Just because you can not give a gift to your spouse on a special occasion unlike other men does not mean that you do not like your spouse! We suggest that you pass this concept on to your spouse as well. Talk to him and tell him how much you love him! Take a few minutes to describe your love and reassure your spouse that you have not lost interest in him or her. Then explain to him why you did not buy the gift, for example, saying that financial circumstances did not allow you to give him a gift and that you spent your money on more essential things for your life together. Surely your partner understands the situation and will not be upset that you did not give him a gift. Provided that you talk to him in an intimate environment a few days ago and explain the situation to him. Be careful not to forget to describe your love.

Make up for it at the right time

Do not be confined to occasions It is a misconception that a gift must be bought on a special occasion. The important thing is love, intimacy and happiness in that day and in those moments. The most expensive and valuable gifts without love can not bring happiness to your heart. Giving is not meant to be just for holidays and special days. You can create different occasions in your life together. For example, celebrate and give each other a gift under the pretext that you have gone through a difficult path together. Or whenever your financial situation gives you this place, buy a gift for each other without occasion. So do not worry if you can not prepare a gift for your spouse on Women’s Day. During your life together, there are many opportunities to make him happy and give him a gift without any excuse. Just remember not to hesitate whenever you can and try to make your spouse happy.

Replace spiritual gifts!

It is not our intention to remove the gift from your life. No! In this article, we are just going to offer you solutions that if for any reason you could not buy a gift for your spouse, the health of your life together will not be endangered and there will be no misunderstanding for your spouse! One way is to substitute spiritual gifts. Spiritual gifts are usually more valuable than material gifts and will last. As a woman, I say that when your husband sees you, you try to prove your love despite your circumstances. You will not pass by this day indifferently and you will spend whatever you can to congratulate him on this occasion, it is more valuable to him and the sweetness of your behavior will remain more in his taste!

Write a handwriting on the memento

Write sentences for your spouse on a piece of paper decorated to your taste or on a postcard and congratulate him or her on this day. You do not need to write a heavy literary text on paper or write a poem, of course, if you can, which is very good, but try to write on paper, all and all the words of your heart. Start by saying how much you love your spouse, talk about his or her strengths, and talk about the comfort you have with him or her. Be sure to write down your good memories in the letter and refresh the sweet days of life for your spouse. Do not dwell on the past and emphasize that you are still as interested in him as in the past. Rest assured that your spouse will feel better about life after reading these words. This spiritual gift of yours will last for many years and every time your spouse looks at it, the sweet feeling of these days will be fresh for him.

Fast for your spouse’s health!

One of the spiritual gifts that you can offer your spouse and enjoy it. This is to fast for the health of your spouse on the birthday of Hazrat Zahra (PBUH), which coincides with Women’s Day. By doing this, both of you will enjoy the reward of fasting on this dear Eid and you will see its effects and blessings in this worldly life. On the other hand, this worthy deed can prove your love for your spouse more than anything. In the hadiths and narrations of the Imams, fasting on Christmas with the happiness of Hazrat Zahra is one of the recommended deeds that has many rewards and virtues.

Spend more time with your spouse!

Try to get home from work a little earlier. Put your tiredness behind the door and enter the house full of energy. Tell your spouse that you came back from work a little earlier today to be with him or her. Do what your spouse likes. Spend most of your time talking to each other. Watch her favorite movies. Pour two cups of tea and flip through your souvenir photo album. Try to retell the memory of each photo and the feeling of that time to your spouse.

A story to read!

One of the counselors says that sometimes a woman comes to for counseling who also has a very good financial situation; “I hate jewelry,” he says. When asked why, she answers: It’s my birthday, my wife is buying gold; It’s our wedding anniversary buying gold service. Eid ul Fitr day gold service. Anniversary of the gold service contract and … I got tired of gold. Gold buys but does not have time for me I wanted you to buy various and simple gifts but it gave me time!

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