Miraculous sentences in raising a child / What to say and what not to say!

Family group: All parents, without a doubt, want the good of their children, but their own life experiences and mistakes, the way they treat their own parents, the kind of upbringing and bad temper of children sometimes make them raise their voices, say the words many times. Repeat, say things that may be wrong in a proper upbringing.

In the past, parents had a more authoritative and grammatical upbringing style, but later it became clear that this type of upbringing style was destructive. The important thing is to know that in the type of speaking, you should be concise, explicit, calculated, logical and with emotions, as well as correct sentences and adorned with beautiful words without swearing, comparing and yelling at the child.

In this report, we will teach parents some correct alternatives for the correct way of talking to children, sentences that can be miraculous examples.

** The right alternatives

Instead of telling your child, “If you do not want to go, I will kill you, Mirma.” “I see you can reach me before number ten!” With that said, instead of emphasizing leaving it, you are focusing on its good work.

Instead of telling your child, “If you sit in your car seat, you will not be taken out,” tell him, “Will you sit in the seat yourself or will I leave you?” Do not give your child this choice, do not listen to what he has to do.

Instead of: yelling and yelling at your child’s name and he or she ignoring you to get angry, get up and stand in front of him or her and do the trick and wait and count to do it. Do not let your child get used to making you angry and ignoring you.

Instead of shouting and threatening, use the right sentences! Do not let your dignity be broken in the eyes of your child!

** Should not

Do not tell your child that if you do not do this, I will not do anything for you. He will get back to you soon.

Instead of saying, “If you do not eat, I will not watch TV for you.” Tell her whenever the food is over while watching TV.

Do not condition your child, do not threaten your child. Make it a law.

** Speak as much as you can

By talking too much, explaining too much, bargaining too much and trying too hard to convince, you are raising your child to be grumpy and bad-tempered.

Do not explain to your child more than twice. He must have understood for the first time. With too much explanation, the value of your words to your child decreases.

If you are one of those people who start advising with your child’s misbehavior, your child will not hear you soon. Be concise and clear.

Do not say: “Oh God, look what the house is made of! Let’s see! How many times do I say, Han, look and see? Didn’t I say you have to clean if you spill? So why still in the middle of the room! I’m tired of you!

Say, “Your toys should be in your room. If you want to play, take it to your room. If you do not need it, I will collect it and put it in storage. do you need help?”

You do the right thing so your child learns the right thing from you. You are your child’s role model. So it learns not only the right behavior but also the wrong behavior from you.

If you give too much, know that after a while your child will not listen to you unless you yell at him! In fact, power in your child’s eyes means shouting, not being firm and kind! If you keep shouting, he will learn that violence is the best way to achieve his desires.

He may be listening to you right away, but this is temporary, and you have to shout louder every day and endanger your mental and physical health. Your child also becomes accustomed to seeing or hearing violence and cannot take care of himself in society, and it becomes normal for him to be abused by others.

Practice today. Pause before yelling. Teach your child how strong you are so you don’t succumb to anger. Sometimes a pause works wonders. Be firm but kind. Believe me, if your child trusts you, you will be less challenged and more cooperative. Remind yourself regularly that he is just a child and needs my help. He who does not know the right behavior, I have to teach him.

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