Shake the house is not over yet! / Three steps to get things straight

group Society; Fars news: We live one year and the end of the year to welcome the new year; A new 365-day booklet of our lives. Positive energy circulates in the house and we feel good about the cleanliness of the house. The running and tiredness of the last days of the old year do not spare us to cleanse and shake the house of our mind, soul, heart and soul.
Now that we are back from the Nowruz holiday and rest, we are tired and we are preparing for a new year, this is the best opportunity we have always been looking for. We need to know what factors diminished our resilience to clean it like house dust.

first step; New and old list

The first step is to remember what we promised ourselves last year. Which was done and how much work was left on the ground? Write honestly the reasons for not doing it. We are not going to justify and deceive ourselves, we want to study a problem and its causes to be solved. Thus, it becomes clear what is left to do, and before making new promises to ourselves and burdening the New Year with new promises, we must prioritize these tasks by modifying the method and reviewing the method of doing it. Then add some new tasks to the list and set the tools and time to do them. Define a few jobs as backup jobs so that each job is not done for logical and acceptable reasons. This helps to clarify the general framework and goals of the new year. Do not waste time and energy.

Step two; Understanding the catalysts of life
One of the best ways to handle life’s challenges is to look through your strengths. First, let’s look at our strengths. Things that give us double the energy to live. List the tasks that were performed in a shorter time than scheduled or predicted. Catalyst in chemistry is a factor that doubles the speed of a reaction.
In normal life, catalysts must be known. For example, this was done better and sooner because I got advice and help from someone. I found a shorter way to do it. I managed my time; I cut back on talking to others, did not allow discussions to get longer than usual, and spent the rest of my time and energy doing so. When I travel with someone, my motivation and energy increase, and I come up with good solutions. When I am weak and involuntary, my mother, father, wife or … continue to follow me and stop me. It revives the passion of pursuing and doing work in my heart again. Every time I travel for two or three days, I find great energy to work for two or three months. Knowing the catalysts, knowing them helps whenever we reach a dead end, strengthens the spark and motivation to continue in the human mind.

Step three; Recognition of oxides

Iron, when exposed to air, rusts and oxidizes. To prevent it from rusting and oxidizing, a stainless steel layer is applied on it. There are certain thoughts and behaviors in our lives that eat the iron inside us like air; It reduces our resilience, even though we are as strong as iron and as strong as a mountain. Oxides are any factor that has caused our work to be delayed, discouraged, and failing. Sitting and standing with people who have negative energy is oxide. Negative people are people who create a problem for every solution and solution that you offer, a but and if they bring and … We sometimes have to associate with these people, it is important to manage relationships.
Another oxide is our own wrongdoing. Use the wrong way or tool to achieve the goal. When we are going to buy a device to develop our business, we can not have the same income and expenses as before. We need to think about expanding our income, or at least increasing our savings. Until further notice, remove unnecessary expenses! We can not expect them to lend us the rest of their capital at unnecessary and for-profit costs, especially in these economic conditions.

Sometimes it gives us features like idealism. As the old saying goes, a big stone is not marking. Set the large stones aside, glue a corner of the work and start. A half-done job is easier to do than a job that never started. Today and tomorrow and procrastination are also the most common oxides of life; “Today’s work is today and tomorrow’s work is tomorrow”; If we make this sentence the slogan of our lives, time will be blessed. These three general steps will help us pave the way for a year and a half. Recognize the dust inside us and walk with a plan for life. Lost time can not be compensated with any treasure.

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