What are the characteristics of proud people?

According to Fars News Agency’s health reporter, Seyyed Mojtaba Hauraei, a psychologist, said on Sima Channel 5: Pride is one of the worst personality traits. It is easy to tell if a person is proud based on certain signs. The first sign is a person’s high expectations and being a creditor. Someone who expects from everyone and usually this expectation is formed in an extreme way.

He added: The second characteristic of a proud person is his nervousness and irritability. Following their unrealistic expectations, these people usually reach a point where they don’t get what they want. This makes them always angry and angry.

Horaei stated: The next characteristic is that it is difficult for a proud person to apologize. These people are willing to do anything, but they will never apologize for their mistakes. They do not admit their mistake under any circumstances and even if they do apologize, they do it reluctantly.

He further said: The next point is that proud people not only do not apologize, but also do not accept apologies. That’s why they hold grudges and get angry all the time. Apologizing to these people usually doesn’t work and it just makes them more proud.

Hawari said: Proud people argue a lot. They always seek to make their point and reach the desired result. For this reason, they involve themselves in long discussions to show that they are right. These people are also used to ordering and forbidding and are not good at consultation.

He added: He who considers himself higher than others, constantly mocks and humiliates others. This person has a habit of constantly judging others and evaluating their work instead of focusing on himself. Due to this characteristic, it often happens that a proud person curses and insults others.

He also stated: Proud people are not born in this way, rather pride is born instead of them through processes. For this reason, it is very important to raise children properly, in such a way that they do not become arrogant.

Horaei said: There are many factors that are effective in the formation of a proud person. Excessive and exaggerated compliments and compliments lead the child to become proud. Another factor is that the person himself is humiliated and harassed by others and as a defense mechanism, he cultivates a kind of pride in himself to fill the created void.

He further pointed out: to cure pride, the first step is to force ourselves to ask questions and consult. It is not bad to sometimes ask the opinion of others and ask others for guidance. It is also necessary to cultivate the spirit of companionship and tolerance with others.

In the end, Hourai said: In the future, we must keep this issue in mind to respect everyone. This issue destroys pride in us; Because we learn that all people are respectable and under no circumstances should we see ourselves above them. In this regard, serving others and taking the lead in this work, without any expectations, can strengthen the spirit of humility and humility in us and help us to reduce our pride.

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