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Why are thoughts separated from each other?/ From the pond of “Maman Goli” house to the lonely cave these days


According to Fars news agency’s community reporter, The smell of damp soil fills the air. Drops of water slide on the purple and pink leaves of geraniums arranged around the pond. The noise of the children’s laughter from the joy of finding each other in the vertical game of rockets is complicated in the whole yard. Goli’s mom, Zendai and the sisters are on the balcony of the house on a cloth mat, cleaning vegetables and preparing dinner. Aghajun takes out the cool watermelon from the pond and slices a camel so that the children can refresh their throats. Everywhere smells of life. What a beautiful scene like a painting. I wish I could paint that scene so that at least its color and glaze remain on the wall of our house. I opened my eyes. What a beautiful dream it was. I wish I could go back to my youth and relive this memory. It’s a pity… it’s a pity about all that sincerity and good heart… Why did the rainbow of life suddenly become black and white? Why did all that intimacy and attachment disappear and people were buried in their lonely cave? Why do people draw an iron fence around their minds?

There is no healthy person who likes pure solitude. Of course, loneliness is one of the states that every human being needs. But a lot of people are knocking on that door. Everyone needs an hour alone to relax. But there are those who feel lonely in the crowd. You must have heard that Saadi says “I am in the middle of the crowd and my heart is somewhere else”. In fact, loneliness is a state of mind that makes people feel empty. Most of the time people just crave human contact, but their state of mind makes it more difficult for them to connect with others. According to many experts, loneliness is not necessarily being alone. If a person feels lonely and isolated, he is lonely even if he is in a group. Sometimes factors such as isolation, moving to a new place, separation or even the death of an important person in one’s life may lead to loneliness. But sometimes there may be a feeling of loneliness in a person’s mind. What is the cause of intellectual loneliness?

Amanullah Qaraei Moghaddam, a sociologist About intellectual loneliness and the reasons for its occurrence, he said: The root of loneliness is thoughts of loneliness, no one, identitylessness and living in big cities. Cities are a world of loneliness, no one, selfishness, selfishness, expediency and identitylessness.

He further claimed: In the world society and as a result in the current society of Iran, everything has become sensual and material and spirituality has disappeared. Sensory and material matters mean everything that can be seen and touched. For example, in people’s relationship with each other, more people tend to have a relationship with that person who has more wealth. Now in many families, siblings look at each other materially. In such a world, lonely thoughts arise and people become lonely. According to the Chicago school, cities are the world of aliens. When people are strangers to each other, they feel lonely in their thoughts. The world of expediency means that everyone only thinks about himself. In this world, people see no one and nothing but themselves.

The sociologist called today’s humans robots and said: I have named the people of this world robots. In the subway, on the street, from north to south and… everyone you see doesn’t have a smile on their face. People pass each other like lifeless robots. As a result, intellectual loneliness arises.

What are the consequences of this type of loneliness?

Qarai Moghadam explained about the consequences of this type of loneliness: In such a world, the number of suicides, self-esteem, selfishness and selfishness increases. In this situation, people are only as valuable as the work they do for you, and they are forgotten after the work is done. In this world, people live alone and die alone.

Three periods of life of the mind

He said about Soluti’s theory: Soluti has divided the history of intellectual mentality into three periods.

Rational mentality: This type of mentality is for the first to second century of ancient Greece.
Intuitive mindset: In this period, everyone has the color of spirituality, fighting and religious beliefs.
Mental and sensory civilization: This type of civilization has continued since the 17th century and we are witnessing it even now. In this period, the mind is only looking for sensations and material things. Clothes, cars, bangles and earrings determine people’s personality. Of course, I must say that this is not unique to our country, this situation exists all over the world. In this world, spirituality becomes less and technology becomes more prominent.

The analyst of social damages regarding mental and sensory civilization explained: In this mental period, no one cares about anyone. For example, if someone has an accident on the side of the street, no one will go to help him, but everyone will be filming him with their phones. Because everyone is thinking about themselves. Of course, it is necessary to say that there are still cities and villages in our country that are far from this rule; But their number is very few.

He further said about the role of money and wealth in people’s loneliness: At this time, everyone wants to buy everything with money. Now the value of people is as much as the money in their pocket and their performance. It is exactly the example of the proverb that says, “If you have money, my friend, lock my wallet”. Now the economy comes first.

Loneliness of thoughts and mosaic relationships in the family

Qaraei Moghadam said about the effect of intellectual loneliness in the family framework: In this situation, the relationships of family members are mosaic. In this type of relationship, mother, father, siblings, wife and children are together but they don’t feel each other. Everyone is in a corner of their phone.

Consequences of lonely thoughts in the family

Regarding the consequences of intellectual loneliness in the family, he said: the existence of intellectual loneliness in the family increases all kinds of social damage. Currently, only his name remains from his siblings. In a family, family members are more drawn to the person who has a better living situation and more money. Also, the statistics of divorce, infidelity and illicit relationships are increasing. According to the Chicago school, in such a world, people are not afraid of being known. As a result, criminals get lost in the crowd of people and in crowded areas such as Shush Street, Herandi Park, etc.

The sociologist and analyst of social harms further explained about the effect of virtual space in this matter: virtual space has been very effective in people’s intellectual loneliness. Mosaic relationships have been created by virtual space. Everyone is playing on their cell phones and they don’t feel the presence of other people around them at all. Technology has done this to humans. We didn’t understand the concept of mobile phone, we don’t even know what mobile phone is made for. In this world, even your family doesn’t know you.

What is the reason for the high crime rate in some neighborhoods?

Qaraei Moghadam stated in this regard: In some neighborhoods, such as Iran Street, crime, illicit relationships, etc. are much less than in other places. Because everyone knows each other here. In these places, national and Iranian identity has been preserved. Place of residence, type of upbringing, beliefs and beliefs of a person and his family, family culture, family control and supervision over a person, even the way a mother breastfeeds affects a person’s character, whether he is good or bad, whether he is a criminal or righteous. Family is very important.

Intellectual loneliness is more common in which age group?

In this regard, he said: It is mostly seen in sensitive age groups and in young people and teenagers. Sitting and getting up, having social relations and communicating with family members is very important.

What should be done to cure this mental loneliness?

In response to this question, the sociologist emphasized: treating intellectual loneliness is very difficult. You should get help from cultural programs from music to series and movies. The level of happiness in the society should increase. Movies should be made in the field of interdependence. But unfortunately our society is divided into two poles. We should go towards our national and patriotic culture and tradition. We must preserve our national identity. Our young people have only seen Ferdowsi’s statue in the middle of the square. How many percent of Iran’s history do our teenagers know?

Regarding the consequences of abandoning this problem, he pointed out: if this problem is not treated, in the future we will see more brain drain, increase in divorce rates, addiction, prostitution, crime, etc.

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