Do not make Yalda night bitter! / A few tips for brides and grooms

Family group: Unfortunately, one of the most controversial ceremonies during the engagement period is “Yalda Night”. Sometimes we hear from new couples that the details of this night, which is supposed to be enjoyable for both families, are frustrating and upset, and they are going to talk about that night and their troubles for years to come. Many boys object to why a night that should be a place of joy has become a one-sided event full of one-sided luxuries and they have to spend so much for one night. The girls also object that the groom’s family’s style of counting is a sign of insignificance, and they may feel embarrassed in front of the family and acquaintances for not following the custom with all the details. That is why “Yalda Night” is one of the most controversial occasions for Iranian couples that should be avoided.

An official that gets harder every year!

One of the Yalda customs is to buy gold, tents and coats for the bride, which she takes to the bride’s house along with the usually decorated fruits and nuts of the groom’s family. In recent years, fruit decoration has become more luxurious and larger every year and has taken on a commercial form. From a few days before Yalda, shops and fruit shops are hot with a variety of large baskets of fruit, and with this in mind, the families of young couples have to go to Yalda night to spend 1400 million or even a few 10 million to get the right thing as is customary. Have complied.

Rising gold prices in recent years have made many young brides and grooms even bother to buy wedding rings, let alone hold side events of their lives, such as shopping for Yalda night, but on the other hand, this ceremony is being held more seriously on social media every year. For this reason, we have some Yalda advice to young brides and grooms.

Do not waste the sweets of love and your new life

Fruit baskets of fruit left on the street for several days that can not be eaten. Decorated watermelons that should be discarded after Yalda because they have been left in the open for several hours and it is not clear whether the knife eaten was clean or not! What can sweeten this volume of extravagance and unused shopping on Yalda night and the night of a new bride and groom? Or it just empties the money in your pocket.

The quantity of Yalda night ceremony does not increase the quality of your love

Some people think that the more fruits on Yalda night and their ceremonies, and the heavier the watermelon they are supposed to bring, the happier and dearer they are. It is enough to look at this ceremony and this extra volume of luxury wisely once. Do Yalda committees of fruits and nuts show the love of the bride and groom for each other? Is the simple holding of this ceremony away from the luxuries that are gaining strength every year a sign of the lack of love between the parties?

The pleasure that is contrary to custom is not in practice

Be at the forefront, and by the way, break the wrong customs by being at the forefront, and allow yourself to be followed by false and luxurious customs instead of following yourself. The rest of the sequel is your correct behavior. You establish a new tradition and behave with pride and self-esteem in such a way that not only are you allowed to intervene and mischievous mischief, but others want to be just as strong and learn from you.

Do not take social media seriously

Social networks are full of colorful photos of Yalda and pomegranate and watermelon from a few days before and after Yalda. Bloggers who are constantly taking pictures of their birthdays. They wear red clothes and are supposed to promote the new fashion for which they have received a lot of money, and many of our friends spend under the influence of this atmosphere, and now they share them to show on social networks to attract everyone’s admiration.

Do not be one of those people who take social media seriously and are supposed to report on their personal life and privacy moment by moment, and only feel happy when they get likes and approval from others. Feel happy in a normal world with a new life.

Do not waste your money on endless pleasures

Yalda multi-toman baskets may not be used for another two or three days, after which they should be discarded and remain on your hand like a painful thing. No matter how much fruit you buy and decorate, your stomach capacity can only eat a limited amount and after that you will even feel bad seeing it. So it is better to spend the money that is supposed to make you feel good on things that will not end soon and will give you longer lasting pleasure.

Talk to each other in advance and be united

Despite the advice, it is better for the girl and the boy to talk about this night beforehand, which is one of the Iranian holidays. Inform each other from within and enlighten the other side. Many of the differences between the newlyweds are that they expect to be understood without talking to each other. For this reason, they should talk to each other a few days before Yalda and make a specific decision according to their opinions and ideas and implement the same so that there will be no problems and differences.

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