Marriage literacy is the most important principle in a successful marriage – Mehr News Agency | Iran and world’s news
فریبا طیری In an interview with Mehr, he said: “Today in the 21st century, having literacy, literacy or even a university degree does not mean that a person is literate. According to UNESCO, having emotional literacy means the ability to establish emotional relationships with a spouse, spouse’s family And friends in a decent way.
He added: “Having communication literacy means the ability to communicate and interact with spouse, family members and the community, including good manners and social relations.”
The Kurdish psychologist, referring to the personality of a literate person, said: Having financial literacy means the ability to manage income economically and knowledge of how to انداز, Investing and managing costs and having education literacy means the ability to raise children properly and having health literacy means the ability to live healthy, indicate a person is literate.
طیری He pointed out: In addition to these literacy, which shows the ability and maturity of a person in emotional, communication, financial, social and psychological dimensions, marriage literacy is also discussed.
He added: “Marriage literacy means being ready for marriage, making the right choice and having the right relationship. Therefore, preparing for marriage requires maturity and maturity in biological and physical, sexual, emotional and emotional, social, cognitive, spiritual and economic dimensions, for example, individual.” Who does not have the power of self-control and gets angry quickly or gets angry and shakes hands is not emotionally mature.
The Kurdish psychologist said: “A person who does not observe justice and constantly expects his wife to respect him and his family and relatives, but does not respect his wife, family and relatives, is not socially mature.” He said: “Also, a person who does not have marriage conditions such as work and housing, not even rent, and does not have the income of an average life and expects to connect with affluent families is not economically mature.
طیری He added: “In fact, a person who thinks” emotionally “about marriage and does not consider the religious, moral, personality, cultural, age, economic, social proportions has not reached” cognitive maturity “.
According to this psychologist, some young people do not reach this age until they are 25 or even 30 years old.
He said that the next criterion in marriage literacy is choosing the right spouse and said: to choose a spouse correctly and wisely, two categories of criteria should be considered and carefully measured. The first category is “harmony criteria” which includes physical appearance, age, education level. , Financial and economic situation and the second category is more internal and hidden ترند, Are called health criteria and include the health of body and soul, a healthy and stable job, a healthy family.
The Kurdish psychologist said: “Many young people are initially influenced by the superficial and emotional attitudes of the other person and plan to marry him without thinking about other criteria of harmony and without thinking about deep and internal criteria.” But after getting to know each other better, they realize that they are no longer in financial, economic, cultural and family harmony.
طیری He added: “The closer you are to your skills, interests, life goals and personality traits, the better your chances of a successful marriage will be.”
He said: Having the right relationship between couples can be considered in the confrontation and interaction of four relationships, including the relationship between husband and wife, relationship between wife and family’s husband, relationship between husband and wife’s family and finally the relationship between two families. If these four relationships are formed correctly, the strength and success of the couple’s life together will be greater.
طیری He added: “The basis of this correct relationship is to have a positive and logical belief and attitude towards marriage and each other’s actions. In fact, emotional literacy and communication literacy play an important role in creating understanding of married life and their families.”
This Kurdish psychologist said: acquired marriage literacy and Based on Proper training in family and community life skills is achieved from childhood to adolescence and is enhanced by continuous training.
He added: “Young people who are literate in marriage in the decision.” Giri Marriage and choosing a spouse will take into account other literacy and will have reasonable reasons for marriage and family formation.
طیری He pointed out: People who are literate in marriage, before marriage and during cohabitation, understand the need for counseling and consider it necessary to consult with experienced and knowledgeable counselors at all stages of marriage.
“Some people with high scientific literacy lack marriage literacy and do not experience successful cohabitation,” he said.
طیری “A literate person, according to UNESCO, is a person who, with the right education, has the ability to have a decent and quality life in the 21st century, with all kinds of literacy, including marriage literacy,” he said.
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