The best way to love a couple

According to Fars News Agency’s health correspondent, Sima Ferdowsi, a psychologist, said in the “Persian Morning” program of the Jam Jam network: “A large part of human behavior is obtained from acquisition.” There may be problems between families. Creation is based on differences and all human beings are different.

He continued: “Even identical twins that are created from one cell have differences, and this shows the differences in the creation of humans, and consequently there is a difference of opinion between the two couples.”

The psychologist stated: the degree of these differences should be reduced and the similarity should be increased, but not all of these differences can be eliminated; sometimes these differences are even good, which complement men and women.

Ferdowsi noted: In general, the sexes of men and women are different and the psychology of men and women are different, and it is the art of these two different creatures to build a good life together and reach an understanding.

The psychologist said: In the discussion of love, women are more verbal and auditory and like to hear the love of their husbands with words in addition to action. But men are visual, and when they see that their spouse is reaching out to the family and caring for them, they realize that he or she loves them.

He continued: “Anyone who wants to marry someone who is from another culture, language and customs must study that culture and understand its differences and ask others to have strong communication skills.”

Ferdowsi said: “Many issues are universal, such as love and respect, which are common to all men and women.” Another point is that this information and knowledge that we have gained when we put ourselves in the family of one person and follow the behaviors of the family of the other party and respect each other.

He said: “Couples naturally disagree with each other, but in the first place, they should reach an agreement by talking, but if they can not reach this agreement, they should use a counselor.”

The psychologist clarified: it is better not to transfer the issues of couples to families; Because of their parental feelings, they may be biased and may not even have the knowledge to give advice and deal emotionally; While the consultant reviews the solutions based on science and knowledge.

Ferdowsi advised: In relationships between spouses, we should not have comparisons with others and not use the person as a person to be compared, but we should seek to make our spouse happy and create good moments for him and each couple for each other in each other Overtake this field.

He added: “Division of labor is also an important issue; Couples need to have strong communication skills, accept each other, love, love and counsel, not involve families in their problems, and do things that provide a happy atmosphere in the family for themselves and their children.

The psychologist said: یرBecause otherwise, children, especially during adolescence, if they do not have a suitable space in the family, run away from home and cause them to distance themselves from family values ​​and standards by being in the peer group.

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