The need for a body in charge of teaching life skills to young people for marriage – Mehr News Agency | Iran and world’s news
Alireza Omidvarian, director of the Family Foundation, told Mehr that young people in Australia and other countries must have a marriage certificate to get married: “In fact, they have to attend training classes and after getting a certificate, they can start a family, but in Iran does not provide enough education for young people to marry.
The psychologist and family expert called the reason for the increase in divorce rates and disputes the lack of skills to live and said: “In our country, there is no special trustee to provide the necessary training in this field and a family ministry and a centralized complex are needed in this field.” And serve the people.
Pointing to the importance of education, he said: “In the case of divorce, we were able to bring a third of the audience back to life with a bit of education during the divorce. Imagine that out of 50,000 people, 15,000 have returned to life.” In the field of marriage, we have to bring as many people into life with a training course as we can.
Omidvarian said that the reason for the problems in the lives of families and the increase in divorce rates is the lack of communication skills, sex, etc. and specified: According to studies, most divorces are related to the first three years of life. The main reason is that young people have started life emotionally or without skills.
The director of the Family Foundation stated: “If we provide the necessary life education to young people before they start living together, make marriage counseling mandatory, produce specialized people and produce good content, problems in life will be prevented and divorce statistics will be limited.” Does not increase.
Omidvarian continued: “Islam is a divine and sacred religion that attaches great importance to the family and recognizes it as an important cornerstone of social life.” Islam recognizes the unity of society from the unity of spouses and the unity of family members, and considers the human interests in the family to be expandable and perishable in society. Islam believes that in order for societies to be regulated, there is no choice but for the family to be regulated first, and any order and construction must begin with the family, and the scope of construction and expansion must be extended to society, and social life must be regulated.
Emphasizing that Islam considers the family as the moral center of society, he said: The type of education and communication in the family creates unity and social character. Islam wants a healthy, clean and chaste generation and a source of pride for human society. Such a generation can only be raised in a healthy family. The duty that the family has towards the upbringing of the individual and the important role that it plays in this field is in fact related to his duty towards the upbringing of the society. In general, it should be said that the family structure is not very good in the country.
The director of the Family Foundation added: “The unfavorable situation of the families is partly related to economic issues and partly related to culture.” According to available surveys and statistics, family space management is not good. Unfortunately, we have not yet provided the right cultural and educational system for the people. So far, all actions have been slogans and we have not prepared a practical and tangible activity that people will accept and use.
Omidvarian, stating that the lack of a proper model or model to the people is a problem, said: The model that we want to define and introduce should be Islamic-Iranian and attractive and close to the culture of the people and applicable. The family issue is important, complex, practical and valuable, and it does not have the right trustee in the country, and in this regard, the Ministry of Culture and Islamic Guidance, the judiciary and the executive branch are obliged to work.
He said: “Islam, considering the effects of the family in raising children, considers the health of the community to depend on a healthy family.” A healthy family, in addition to the growth and prosperity of children, does not neglect the healthy upbringing that spouses receive from each other. A healthy family is a safe framework for their spouse and children, and this expanded framework provides a secure community framework.
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