The reason for the glory of the heavenly marriage of Hazrat Ali (pbuh) and Hazrat Zahra (pbuh) – Mehr news agency Iran and world’s news

According to Mehr reporter, today is the first day of Dhul-Hijjah, which coincides with the anniversary of the heavenly union of Hazrat Zahra (pbuh) and Hazrat Ali (pbuh).

The marriage of Amir al-Mu’minin (peace be upon him) with Hazrat Zahra (peace be upon him) is undoubtedly the best example in all fields related to marriage. Today, families have failed in the field of marriage due to moving away from the Alavi-Zahrai lifestyle and turning to the western lifestyle, and the high number of divorces is a confirmation of this. Therefore, by examining this marriage, we should find out the main secret of its being chosen.

This divine bond is considered a complete and perfect example for choosing a spouse, conducting a wedding ceremony, and the Islamic lifestyle. The fruit of this auspicious marriage were children who were the leaders of their age and time and an eternal model for humanity in all individual, social, political and moral aspects.

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In analyzing this level of success of this marriage, several factors come to mind; Kinship, external features such as beauty, wealth, fame, etc. But really, what was the main reason? Investigating and paying attention to the main factor of the superiority and superiority of this marriage can help young people in the matter of marriage. Carefully in the narrations related to this marriage, we come to the point that religion and piety were the basis and root of this sublime and wonderful bond.

The Prophet of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, says: “Whoever marries a woman does not marry her except for her beauty. He does not love her, and whoever marries her for her wealth does not marry her except for their beauty. [۱] Whoever marries a woman because of her beauty, will not see his desire in her, and whoever marries a woman because of her wealth, may God leave her to the same wealth and wealth, so be upon you. [ازدواج با] Religious women.”

In another narration, four types of motives are mentioned in choosing a wife by a man; “Tankahu al-Maraatu is on the basis of the four periods: on property, on religion, on beauty, on account, and on lineage, in fact, in the essence of religion; [۲] A woman is married for four qualities: her wealth, her beauty, her religion, her honor and her family; And marry pious women.”

On the other hand, there is the same advice to girls about choosing a husband. The Prophet of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said: “When someone comes to you to propose and you like his piety and trustworthiness, give him a wife…”[۳] Also, in a narration, Imam Mojtaba (peace be upon him) said in response to a man who consulted him about his daughter’s marriage: Marry her to a pious man; Because if the girl loves you, he will cherish her and if he does not love her, he will not oppress her.”[۴]

In this holy marriage, according to the true religion and piety of Amirul Momineen, peace be upon him, and the only Lady of Islam, the best events and behaviors have been reported; Among them: “Choosing a spouse based on God’s service, not wealth and wealth.” [۵]reducing the dowry [۶]Simple wedding ceremonies [۷]The dowry is limited to the necessary means for living and the absence of luxury items [۸] Mutual understanding (I swear to God! I have never done anything to make Fatima angry and I did not force her to do anything… She also never angered me and did not take a step against my inner desire) [۹]”

Indeed, the faith and piety of each husband and wife in life, which is based on belief in God and the resurrection, causes life to take on a divine color. In such an atmosphere, husband and wife pay attention to their duties and responsibilities and refrain from violating the rights of others. As much as the spirit of piety and religion in people’s lives is less flourishing, the sense of responsibility towards their own actions and others decreases.

In the current situation where the western lifestyle has caused faith, beliefs and piety not to be the primary criteria for marriage and worldly affairs such as wealth, luxury, etc. are considered the basis, our youth should follow the example of the life of Amir al-Mu’minin, peace be upon him, in relation to the religion and piety of the partner. Make a special effort in your life. In the end, it is important to mention that emphasizing religiosity does not mean not considering other criteria such as beauty, economic status, family and friends of the wife, etc., but it means that religiosity and piety should be the main criteria.

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[۱] Rishahri, Mizan al-Hikmah, vol. 5, p. 88, hadith 8029.
[۲] Same, Hadith 8033.
[۳] Same, Hadith 8035.
[۴] Same, Hadith 8036.
[۵] Yousefi Gharavi, Encyclopedia of Al-Tarikh al-Islam, vol. 2, p. 215.
[۶] Allameh Majlisi, Bihar al-Anwar, vol. 93, p. 170, narration 10.
[۷] Yousefi Gharavi, Encyclopedia of Al-Tarikh al-Islam, vol. 2, p. 214.
[۸] Shahidi, Fatemeh Zahra’s life, pp. 58-59.
[۹] Erbali, Kashf al-Ghamma fi Ma’arafa al-A’imah, Vol. 1, p. 373.