What effect does having a two-person congregational prayer have on a couple’s relationship?

Life group: One of the behaviors that is very common in cyberspace today is posting pictures of two-person congregational prayers and imitating a woman on her husband on Instagram. Religious couples say that the purpose of publishing these images is to promote a good tradition in cohabitation, but the question arises whether a woman’s obedience to her husband is legally correct or whether it can have a positive effect on the couple’s relationship?

Is it possible to follow the spouse or father of the family?

The conditions of congregational prayer and the Imam of the congregation are stated in practical treatises. Performing congregational prayer at home and following the husband is also correct if it is in accordance with those conditions, and it can also give the effects and reward of performing congregational prayer to the Imam and the mammum. .

Also, the Supreme Leader of the Revolution, in response to this question, says: “Despite the conditions of the Imam of the congregation, there is no problem, but it is recommended; “Of course, by accessing a cleric, do not follow a layman.”

What effect does a two-person congregational prayer have on a couple’s relationship?

Dr. Ali Akbar Mortazavi Kiasari, a psychologist and president of the Iranian Association of Counseling and Psychology Centers, said in an exclusive interview with a Fars reporter: “Holding congregational prayers at home actually increases spirituality. On the other hand, this increase in productivity also occurs in the emotional dimension. Why That a woman follows her husband is a kind of seal of approval for her personality. This action contains a message from the lady to the gentleman that says I believe in you so much, I love you so much and I rely on you that I am present in the presence of God with you.

Dr. Mortazavi Kiasari further stated: One of the psychological needs of people is the need for admiration and respect. In your existence, I send my heavenly work to God.

The head of the Iranian Association of Counseling and Psychology Centers emphasized: Of course, this action should not be a show and a tool. In other words, a woman should follow her husband with the intention of approaching God and enjoying the reward of congregational prayers, not with the intention of honoring his character or improving their relationship!

What effect does holding congregational prayers at home have on children’s attention and tendency to perform prayers?

Dr. Ali Akbar Mortazavi Kiasari, in response to the question of what effect the congregational prayers have on the children’s adherence to the prayers, told a Fars reporter: God has given the father and the head of the family the authority to give orders to their family members regarding the prayers. Of course, this means a gentle and continuous command, for example, a father says to his son: My dear, do not forget your prayers! But this may not be to the liking of some family members and they consider it an intervention. As a result, holding congregational prayers as a family and at home, because it is in the form of a collective call, prevents the creation of such a mentality.

He added: “Holding congregational prayers at home can be a kind of public exercise for people who are negligent in performing prayers or a kind of training for those who do not know the correct form of prayer. Also, congregational prayers are very virtuous and it is performed in the family system.” Due to the educational roles of prayer, it is a very worthy work.

The head of the Iranian Association of Counseling and Psychology Centers added: “The best method of education is indirect education. In the issue of raising children and their adherence to prayer, performing congregational prayers in the family system can be a kind of indirect education.” Is displayed. When the father and family members stand up for prayer, the child is motivated to imitate that behavior. In Islam, in addition to the issue of commanding prayer, there is also the issue of children practicing prayer. As the Prophet of Islam (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Practice your children to pray.

What are the conditions of the Imam?

The Imam of the congregation must be an adult, wise, and a Shiite of the twelve Imams, just and lawful, and he must offer the prayers correctly, and also if the mammum is a man, his imam must also be a man, and following the discriminating child who understands good and bad to the child Discrimination is no longer permissible and it is an obligatory precaution that the female Imam is also a man.

A person who prays standing cannot imitate a person who prays sitting or lying down, and a person who prays sitting cannot imitate a person who prays lying down.

One who prays while sitting can imitate the one who prays while sitting, and also one who is asleep can imitate the one who prays while sitting, but one who prays while sitting cannot imitate anyone. Who prays while sleeping, to follow.

If the Imam of the congregation prays with tayammum or ablution due to an excuse, he can be followed, but if he prays with an excuse in impure clothes, he should not be followed according to the obligatory precaution.

If the Imam has a disease that he can not refrain from passing urine and feces, it is not obligatory as a precaution to follow him.

According to the obligatory precaution, a person who has an illness or pus should not become the Imam of the congregation.

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