Why shouldn’t private life be dumped on social media? / Don’t give the wrong address about our lives

Family group; Atieh Hemmati: It is very natural that when you are doing something good or interesting, you want to post it politely on social media. But overdoing it can have serious consequences for both you and others. There is a common English proverb that says “private life is a happy life” because people can not talk much about you or spread rumors. You do not have to worry about the rumors being spread to you and you do not have to deny it. That is why private life is a happy life and only those who care about their privacy enjoy it.

Resisting the tendency to share more on social media has become a major problem in recent years. Especially for those who share a lot of personal information about themselves. Sometimes this sharing also leads to personal issues, which can be called “oversharing”. They have overflowed in some way. They use the network as a place to regularly vent their emotions. They are constantly writing about their families, relationships and personal issues. And several times a day they post about what they are doing or want to do.

But why shouldn’t our private life on social media be like an open book for everyone to read?

Many reactions to you become unreal

Not everyone is happy for you. You post your happy moments and achievements on social media to get congratulations or people to understand how happy your life is. But the truth is that even with all the positive comments in your posts, not everyone is really happy about them and does not support it much. Some people may see you as an arrogant person who leads to jealousy of you (even if it is better that we do not care what people think of us) or even try to ruin that success. Also, posting emotional issues or situations that have happened to you based on collecting pity from your followers is always a wrong move. Your drama is just a hobby for them because no one really cares.

You give the wrong address to others!

When you are constantly posting and taking photos of your personal life in cyberspace. Inadvertently you make others feel that your life is much better than theirs. Hence, you indirectly create low self-esteem and a sense of insecurity in their personal lives. You also subconsciously encourage them to live up to your standard of living, and you even encourage them to constantly post pictures and stories of their personal and private lives, and that is not good at all. That is, your mistake will confuse the rest.

Your self-esteem goes down

Sometimes you post private content on social media to be intimate with your audience; But you do not get the feedback you expect, and some people leave bad comments. This jess can then lower your self-esteem and make you feel bad about yourself and your life and even the happy memories you posted about it.

It reduces your security

Your personal information is very important to you and making it available to everyone is a very wrong move. Some people try to harm you by archiving your personal information or by creating fake user accounts with your number and profile. Cybercriminals only need a little personal information from you to get to work through it. , Harm your home or even your loved ones.

It spoils your resume

These days, if you go anywhere for work, they will ask for your URLs. Then when they check your page and see that you are very active in publishing private content. You will probably not like them and you will be disqualified. Even if you qualify for the job, this disapproval may happen to you.

It ruins your relationships

The desire to produce private content and talk about the behaviors of your spouse, mother, sister and even friend and acquaintance and their traces in your content may lead to their dissatisfaction and damage your relationship. Many people who had romantic photos of a couple and were able to attract a large audience were forced to divorce and separation due to the challenges and problems arising from the bitter consequences of the publication of this private photo. People are watching you on the net and are still looking for you so that they do not lose the drama of your life.

Cyberspace and the Internet are not forgetful!

When you post everything quickly on social media, there is a possibility that you may post something wrong before you measure it and try to delete it. Some people have saved it on their mobile phones. When you post your anger or talk about your frustration, you may regret it after it subsides and even clear your post. But it still remains on the Internet. When you take too many photos and videos of your personal life and talk about your fiery loves, but you suffer bitter consequences and divorce. Your followers still remember your personal photos well and they are easily found on the internet and you have to tell each one of you the details of your life and the reasons for your separation. This is not pleasant at all.

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