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According to reports * Mehr Reporter, A recent documentary has been published in cyberspace in which several single women, all of whom are chadors and symbols of the religious community, are asked what their criteria are for marriage and whether they marry a young man who is a falafel seller, builder, scraper and van driver.
Almost all of these women say no to the questions raised by stating that their criteria are piety, being religious, loving the martyrs, and so on.
In the next step, the handwritten notes of these girls are given that some of the great martyrs had the same occupations, and after seeing this writing, they often feel ashamed.
Addressing social issues as a strict criterion for marriage is a good topic, but in this film a biased approach is taken. Why are all the people selected for the interview girls in hijab and seemingly religious? Do not girls who are not chadors want to get married or have a special view of the martyrs?
We have seen many times in religious ceremonies, funerals of martyrs and girls we have seen, non-veiled girls and women shed tears and show the depth of their belief in a corner that tens of thousands of cases may have been seen and photographed by a photographer.
Religious traditions, logic, commonplace norms, psychological advice, and all emphasize the equality of girl and boy in marriage, and that we expect one person to consent to marriage with another who has a fundamentally different world and possibly a different understanding of the relationship. They will have issues, it is fundamentally wrong.
Our dear martyrs are a model of life, faith and sacrifice, but do all falafel sellers become like Martyr Zolfaghari? Are all people like the bronze martyrs and…?
It is not clear for what purpose this film was made, but it is definitely not right to try to pressure a young religious girl in front of the camera by using a tool called the great name of the dear martyrs, because she has been asked to violate logic and with a Improper analogy change your answer.
One should be optimistic that one should not think that one of the goals is not to destroy the religious class, to have some jobs for marriage, to destroy the martyrs, and to make such a documentary.
Certainly, among these religious girls of our country, there have been and are brave wives who have sacrificed the martyrs of the revolution, the holy defense, the defender of the sanctuary, the defender of health, the defender of security, etc., and these girls are mothers whose path continues.
There are principles and criteria for marriage that exist in our culture and religion, and basically this film not only has no significant connection with the category of marriage, but also no other specific concept is taken from it.

* Mohsen Fouladi

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