In the Quran, the philosophy of marriage mentions peace – Mehr News Agency | Iran and world’s news
According to the Mehr correspondent, “Mohsen Abbasi Valadi” in the program “Non-Stop”, pointing out that it is true that the age of marriage has increased, but in general it can not be accepted that young people can not get married, said: Remove those obstacles, and the other thing is that everything that is said about tolerance and facilitation has nothing to do with the efforts of the officials. The program, duties and work of the officials are different, and they should do their best to make the marriage easy.
He added: “The first reason for not getting married is that young people say that one divorce is registered for every three or four marriages. In some metropolises, the number is even higher. These divorces show that one marriage is one.” The area is dangerous, so it is better to delay it, so it is one of the obstacles to divorce, but it should be noted that we should never make laws of failures as we can not make laws of victories. This is the analysis of failures and victories that the law gives us. .
Pointing out that one of the reasons for the increase in divorce is the wrong choice, the family counselor said: “A choice that starts with a glance and a heartbreak can be easily eliminated. Who said marriage should start with love?” I believe that man should live with love, but I also disagree with this rule and the loves that are produced at a glance and with an initial feeling. These loves are not lasting. I say that marriage should be wise and based on the goal that I have in I seek marriage, the love that is produced in the course of life is lasting love.
Abbasi Valadi also emphasized: Marriage is a need, we are created in such a way that we feel the need for complementary sex from an early age. Man wants to fill this need for peace with the connection of friendship or illegitimate and entertainment in different spaces, while no matter how much he is in this space, he still does not feel peace. Reproduction is a necessity and having a child is part of the comfort, he says.
Asked if the answer to the need for marriage could be found in a way other than the one set by the Creator, he clarified: “No, all the financial independence and love of the parents can be met instead of meeting the need of a spouse whom God created for the comfort of man.” It does not work, yes at some point occupations may distract people from the need for it, but this exception that arises in society will become a big gap in the future. In fact, marriage calms a person if it is marriage, because sometimes marriage itself is a kind of differentiation.
The teacher of the basics of Islamic education and development reminded: that is, two people sometimes fall in love in an environment outside the living environment and say how happy we are if we live and feel out of place outside the living environment, but when they enter life and decisions and worries They conflict with each other and just realize that they were not a good couple for each other, when the choice is wrong, a real marriage and the two being together کافو It is not done.
He also concludes on the meaning کافو explained: کافو That is, someone who is in line with me in terms of attitude and belief, and in terms of spirits and temperaments, guarantees the love and peace that we seek, human beings who are not ideologically, morally and spiritually compatible with each other. They have and the challenge does not allow them to experience peace, and also the second point that they do not reach peace is that they enter the wrong life after making the wrong choice. We must believe that living is the rule.
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