Why should we have a second and third child? / The slogan “fewer children” isolated the sixties

Family group: The sixties are well acquainted with the slogan “fewer children, better life” and have heard it a lot. Those whose parents decided to either have one child or eventually have two children, but now that these children have grown up, they are generally either alone or complaining about not having an aunt, aunt, uncle and cousin. Their mothers complain about why they did not bring them siblings.

Many of these parents, in justifying their only child, also say that they have done this to better educate their child, while single children experience great sorrow and double loneliness, sometimes due to the great attention paid to educational mistakes. It has nothing to do with themselves. Injuries to one child have been identified in all societies today, so that even in the West, to promote family formation and childbearing, families are shown in their films and series with more than two children, three or four children, rather than as a role model. Be for young people.

Many parents today are still influenced by the same slogans of the sixties and their parents’ previous thoughts that they could not provide or raise children, while research has shown that time and energy Parents can divide what they leave for a child correctly and optimally and assign it to two children, and they may even find a better time for their children in terms of timing and energy, because children can do it after a while. Fill and play together instead of single children who take a lot of time to play and fill their time by parents.

Another disadvantage of having one child is “empty nest syndrome”, which you may have heard a lot from the media these days. That the parents have an only child after they leave, and that symptoms such as depression and anxiety or feelings of emptiness and loneliness appear after a child leaves home.

First, the second child avoids the extreme dependence of the parents on the first child. In this report, we point out some important reasons for families to have a second child.

We all know that the child is the light of the eyes of the parents and with his birth he occupies all the focus and attention of the parents. Now imagine that this light of the eye is only one, all the attention and focus is on him and even the parents themselves. They become extremely dependent on him, and for this reason, their expectations are higher than he is in adulthood. Now, if they have two or more children in the same family, all these dependencies and attention, concentrations and expectations will be halved and the children will not be pressured too much, and the educational process will be better.

Second, having more children prevents loneliness and depression in aging parents.

If you remember, the old grandparents were much happier than they are now because the grandchildren were always around them, they always spent the weekends with family and children, and if it were not for one of them, the rest would fill up, but now the grandparents And the grandparents of the new generation may have only one or two grandchildren, maybe not even that, and with the pressure they put on their children to have children, many still do not go under, and that is why parents are the same age. The above cause more depression and loneliness.

Third, after a few years and the birth of the second child, the excitement and hope of life reaches its peak again.

Parents become involved in life after the first child grows up and lose their excitement and forget that the child has given them the excitement and the beautiful days and joy when they were born, now they can after Provide these conditions for themselves twice with another child for a few years.

Of course, some people may say that financial and economic conditions these days do not require them to have more children, it is true, this is important, but on the one hand, God Almighty has left our children aside one day. Find a better financial, economic, and job with blessings, and on the other hand, the more energy and passion the parents themselves find, the more their life expectancy multiplies and the more work and effort they put in.

Fourth, in the future and in your absence, having at least one sibling will make you not alone and have a caring supporter for the real thing.

It’s also important to know how lonely or supportive the children are after the parents. It is very important that they have the support of siblings and that they feel good in the absence of their parents and that they can interact with each other and have support when they need help.

However, having one or more children is a matter for couples to decide based on their living conditions. However, paying attention to these issues may also make minds more open and better able to make decisions in this regard. Finally, to bring the second child, it must be prepared. Having a second child is a choice and must be made with interest and preparation.

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