It can not be said that chastity has nothing to do with hijab – Mehr News Agency | Iran and world’s news
According to the Mehr reporter, the “Cheragh” program of Channel 5 will be hosted by Dr. Zeinab Akhtari this week Neurobiology And a member of the faculty of the Neuroscience Research Center at the University of Medical Sciences, Director General of Women and Family Affairs of the Ministry of Interior, active in the social and cultural field, top researcher and among the leaders of jihadi groups and also active in the social and cultural field, top researcher and group managers There are jihadists in the country.
Referring to the structural differences between men and women, Akhtar said: “Structural differences exist in the internal surface of the body organs, especially the body commander, ie in the brain, and in addition to structural differences, the physiology and mechanism of action of male and female body cells are also different.” And the differences that are hormonal and make the behaviors completely different. According to the topic of the program, which is the issue of covering, chastity and hijab, I will focus on the issue of the emotion system. In the brain of every human being Amygdala, Is the center of emotion, and this part also has structural differences in the physiology of men and women. Amygdala It has different sections. It is a part of emotional memory. Emotional memory is created and remembered for the person in the face of emotion, and then the person can make decisions through that emotion. Giri Slowly One of the most colorful emotions is having sex with the opposite sex, which creates a special emotional load in the brain. In other words, it creates an emotional memory. This emotional memory is also present in men, but is structurally smaller; That is, the side section or section لترال Amygdala It is larger in women, so the memory it forms is stronger Ashtala It is said that memory is a clearer memory. In fact it is more durable and long lasting in women as well as recovery اش more than. That is, women are much better able to review memories and retrieve memory, but in men, due to structural differences in the discussion of dignity, in many cases, emotional memory is not formed at all, but for women, this memory is formed much more and stronger.
He pointed out: In the discussion of facing the opposite sex, the emotional load and reflex that activates the brain are completely different between men and women, and it is quite obvious, and there is no need to explain that a man or a woman is faced with a reflex. What are their answers? There are differences. The part of emotional memory that should also be structurally defined as a role for a woman, which is a mother role and should be aware of all aspects and have all the memories, is a very good thing. But when it is out of the ordinary and constantly confronts itself with these emotional loads, this part of the emotional memory will remain active and the decisions it makes are based on this emotional memory, so it is no longer the memory that should be based on thinking. And if reason is formed and has a rational behavior, it is no longer rational and it is emotional. As a result, when the emotional memory is active, misconceptions are created in the mind, the mind becomes involved and the person becomes anxious, and the person experiences a kind of ambiguity, an ambiguity that is accompanied by anxiety. One of the reasons for the activities of this department is facing the same special emotional loads that, if left unchecked, can lead to depression.
Let the heart be pure; Hijab does not matter!
“If the brain is a nervous system and a processing system, it has a series of inputs and outputs,” he said. Brain inputs are the same as sensory inputs; Sight, hearing, taste, touch. The inputs are processed in the brain and Based on This processing forms the individual’s behavioral model, that is, the output behavior; Therefore, it cannot be said that chastity has nothing to do with hijab; That is to say, a person has chastity in himself but does not appear! Definitely this system should give an output. That is, the individual’s mind analyzes what input to see, what input not to see, what to do, and what model to appear based on facing a problem. So these definitely have an output. In the behavioral sciences, this category is called the output of behavior. So this behavior must have an appearance. One cannot say: only the heart should be pure, but the behavior it shows is not the right behavior in terms of the criteria and criteria that are right; In other words, a person should say something in his heart, but be different in behavior or language, postures and body movements. It cannot be said that they are completely separate and unrelated اند And it is not scientifically justifiable. We have to look at things differently. Many of those who are unfortunately the victims are not really to blame اند They were completely covered and chaste. But what happens is that, where we say we have rules and regulations, when a system is activated it gets out of control, maybe someone else, another woman, activated this person’s system, but, access to He does not have the same person and has passed through him, but as long as this emotional system is active, he seeks to have that reflex and behavior, and in this way he may be the victim of a person who was not really to blame. Rather, there is a third person who has wronged both his own homosexuality and his own kind and caused this to happen to this person. Again, I’m not saying it’s just at a glance, just خانمانه, I emphasize that this issue goes back to both sides. That is, both men and women, but in the discussion of vulnerability, the approach to harm is more to the woman, the precaution and condition of reason is that the woman should protect herself more.
Both men and women need to be in control of their behavior
“The reason for emphasizing women more is that this sex is more sensitive, delicate and harmful,” Akhtar said. More acceptable The system of female physiology is designed for a series of specific tasks, so this system should not lead to harm to her duties, in this regard, the role of female self-control is more prominent. Another point is that all human beings should raise their understanding in terms of social and personal relationships, and it is not just that some say that men should raise their consciousness, raising awareness is good and is for both sexes, but it should be He noted that the emotion system sometimes does not recognize consciousness and, regardless of that consciousness, deals with emotions and makes decisions. This is where the person should be careful that those emotions do not provoke both the person and the other person. It is true that people are educated in the family to behave in society, but as some expect men in society to look at other women differently and be like their sisters and mothers, there is nothing at all, contrary to structure and physiology. His body. Everyone must be in control گر Be their behavior, their look, be the right look and do not look bad, but That’s right Nor is it to say that we said this and that’s all. There is no such thing in That’s right Everyone will be a Muharram and marriage will not take place at all and it is not logical. If we narrow the circle of social relations and bring it to the family environment, for example, friends who are very close to each other, have family visits, say that we have no feeling for this lady at all, we have no feeling for this gentleman. This is my cousin, this is my cousin ام Is, cousin ام Yes, we are old and family friends and we travel together, again it is not logical to justify. For example, I had a student who said that we were with my aunt’s family ام We have a very good and intimate relationship and me and my cousin ام We also have a very good relationship, we have a lot of time for each other, we love each other so much that he once proposed to me! So what happened? Those who were like brothers and sisters? So there is a sense, now it may be either hidden or the intensity and حدتش It’s different, but it is not the case that someone says, for example, that this is my brother, that this is, for example, something, that there is also something, whether about the person himself or about the other party! So we have to open our eyes, look at the community and the environment around us to understand those who have been harmed اند Unfortunately, at first they were very comfortable and relaxed, for example, they did not have any problems, but after a while, they became involved in triangular love affairs and so on. اند. So there is a brain and the emotion system will go through its normal routine.
Man and the need to be seen
The faculty member noted in part: There is a desire to be seen in every human being, this desire is more colorful in women; The desire to be seen, the desire to be approved and acknowledged, why not put this desire next to social services and direct that right and fundamental activity and the fundamental and right being seen in the right direction? Not only does it not cause social harm but it also has an added value! A woman can, in order to be seen, to create a good feeling in herself, for example, as many people say: we want to wear this, for example, to look like this, to talk about it so that we feel good, and to achieve that good, they can have sweets. Experience a sense of humanity. For example, when می بیند That a person is in a good mood and from his well-being, he gets and understands his good mood and mood, and this well-being in his own life as well. برمی To be; It means a kind Give And it is closed and reciprocal, and that those potential needs and talents that exist can be realized without a gender perspective, that is, a perspective that without بما هو Man has a series of talents, along with those talents, a series of characteristics خانمانه He also has the ability to do more special things, to direct these more special things in this direction, he is very good and he will feel long-term pleasure, he will be seen, he will have the flourishing of talent and not only is he not harmed but Has been able to add value Oh you To have in the community. For example, in order to flourish the talents and create a good feeling for me and my colleagues, we implemented a project called “حسناWho was hopeful about mothers; Somewhere a woman said that when I woke up I had to put a hand on my head and face first, because I could not bear myself without a پیراپش And to see makeup, but since I met you and می بینم That I can help and make others feel good I feel good, the more I help, the more I am encouraged to myself and to others, I am both seen and I am seen right! He used to say everyone was worried ام Was it that someone talking to me did not judge my appearance? He used to say that now I do not care about my appearance, the important thing is that the other party for whom I do something is in a good mood and feels satisfied. So when self esteem اش Recognized, a higher value was achieved. Finally, it is necessary to mention that doing jihadi work to provide for the livelihood of the people without addressing cultural poverty seems to be a superficial task. To be considered.
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