Life group: Some parents think that if a law is passed for children in the home environment, it means limiting and destroying the creativity of children, while this idea is wrong and small restrictions at home make children better able in adulthood. Understand the rules of society and deal with them as well as behave sensibly in the home environment.
If these rules are not enacted at home, every child will definitely throw away his plate while eating, go to bed late at night, teenagers are out of control and constantly challenge the family. Some rules teach children about lifestyles, while others teach basic social behaviors. Like saying “please” or “forgive” which will be used for children later in society.
All family members can be involved in determining the law. Be sure to involve your teen, especially if you have one at home. Children from the age of three or four have the ability to understand simple rules. But they may forget it so you can remind them.
Some parents always complain about how other people’s children become polite and personable, but their own children are respectable at parties or misbehave at home. This report teaches 10 rules that make your family a valuable family in the community:
1. Talk to all family members with respect
If you, as a parent, speak respectfully to all members of the family, your children will learn too. So the first step is if your kids call you, say, “Yes, Mom, Yes, Dad,” “My dear.”
2. Let’s knock on the door first
When you want to enter the children’s room, knock on the door first and teach the children to knock on the door first when they want to hear Mom and Dad enter the room and then say, “Are they allowed to enter the room?”
By doing this, you are teaching children the etiquette of entering places that are people’s privacy.
3. No kicking, beating or pushing!
One of the rules in your home is that behaviors such as kicking, pushing and beating are not allowed in your home at all. Teach these behaviors to children without your own fuss, and if someone does not comply, warn them, and if they repeat too much, deprive them of some of their interests, for example: “Because you pulled your sister’s hair and we in our house. “We have a beating law, you can not watch football tonight.”
4. Do not speak loudly
Do not speak loudly in your home and make it a rule that loud noise is forbidden. So you have to talk calmly and respectfully to agree. If the children do not obey, do not listen to them and say that I only hear quiet voices, then little by little they learn that they should talk calmly and respectfully to each other.
5. Three words at home are essential
Make it necessary to use three words in your home: “Please, thank you, I’m sorry.”
Of course, teach and set situations for the child to use these three words. For example, if he did something wrong and upset someone, he should apologize, or if he asked something from a sibling or mother and father and others, it is better to say “please”.
6. We do not nod
For children who have reached a certain age of reason but whose wishes are conveyed, specify the rule that nagging is forbidden and if they want to say something in a normal voice, “I do not like this.” Or “I like some food.”
7. Be honest
Start being honest yourself first, you should always tell the truth at home so that the children can learn, even if they did something bad, because lying bothers us the most, it is better to tell the truth.
The issue of being honest requires a special report, but as long as you are honest as a parent, then ask the children to tell the truth, even if they made a mistake, but then do not argue with them and only teach them. Encourage them to do the right thing and encourage them to be honest.
8. Always be thankful
We should always be grateful, even if they bought us a gift we did not like, we should say: “Thank you” It often happens that children do not know this law and do not follow it and cause upset. It is better to teach them thanks and gratitude with a rule, first thank each other in front of the children and then ask them.
9. Respond quickly to others
When someone calls us, we must respond immediately because not responding is disrespectful to family members. Also, continue to tell the children to wait until others have finished talking and then talk.
10. Be kind to others
This kindness can be with humans and animals. It is better to teach children to love others. Such a thing depends on you observing yourself in life, not hiding behind others and not having hatred, insults and abuse.
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